Noemiforever43 Posted December 2, 2018 Posted December 2, 2018 I have family, that does not talk to me, and they all believed I am the black sheep, I am in between 2 waters I Like to start a connection with all my family, but all they do is bring the past back, so I don't know what to do?
Happy Lemming Posted December 2, 2018 Posted December 2, 2018 ...they all believed I am the black sheep You are not alone... I am the "black sheep" in my family, as well. I've had this "nomadic gene" in my DNA and always felt the urge to move around (during my youth). My family didn't agree with my choices, but it was my life to live. I had fun and have no regrets. My life has been a blast and it ain't over yet!! I've only recently reconnected with my father, as his health is starting to fade. He still makes comments about my choices in life and brings up my past, but I ignore it and steer the conversation to something benign. My suggestion... travel, move around, have fun, & do what makes you happy. If your family doesn't want to meet you half way and communicate with you in a respectful way, then don't talk to them. You only get one life, so enjoy it -- your way!!
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