Max00 Posted November 30, 2018 Posted November 30, 2018 I am a female in my mid 20s and he is a male in his mind 20s I have been talking to a guy I met on a dating app and things have been going well. We have been talking for about a week, and then exchanged numbers. We planned on meeting this Friday, but I have friends visiting so we switched it to Sunday. Anyways, he added me on snapchat yesterday and sent me a picture. I sent one back and it may not have been the best phot as I wasn’t wearing any makeup, but I don’t think it was bad. He never responded to the snap. I asked him when it would work to meet on Sunday and he said he’d let me know. I said okay and asked him something else. He has not responded, but I can tell he has been on the dating app. What should I do? Should I try and meet with him for an hour tonight and get it over with? Is he not interested anymore?
stillafool Posted November 30, 2018 Posted November 30, 2018 If he hasn't been quick to meet after getting your pic I would forget about it. I would not contact him again as the ball is in his court. If he doesn't like the way you look with no makeup let him be because if you got involved with each other he would see you with no makeup at some point. I agree that he seems to have lost interest.
smackie9 Posted November 30, 2018 Posted November 30, 2018 OM Gosh why? First impressions count girl, make the effort! He's long gone. The other poster is trying to smooth things over but hey, they don't see you without makeup until you are fully involved and really liking you or in love...that's when they are OK with it.
Wallysbears Posted November 30, 2018 Posted November 30, 2018 OM Gosh why? First impressions count girl, make the effort! He's long gone. The other poster is trying to smooth things over but hey, they don't see you without makeup until you are fully involved and really liking you or in love...that's when they are OK with it. Guys don't want to see a woman without makeup, etc. until they actually LIKE her and definitely not before a first date.
Morris17 Posted November 30, 2018 Posted November 30, 2018 Forget him he's not worth it. The fact that he hasn't replied to you since indicates that there isn't much interest on his part. I've had the same thing happen with guys before where they've shown interest in meeting and we've gone on to plan something and then they just stop replying. It's awful because it makes you think 'What is wrong with me?' and then you see them still using the dating site and yet they can't even send a simple message explaining things. I've learned that those kinds of guys just aren't right in the long run. Sure enough, you may get a date out of him but chances are it won't go any further and he'll just end up doing the same thing again.
olivetree Posted November 30, 2018 Posted November 30, 2018 I would assume he lost interest after you sent him the pic. Whatever you do, don't chase him/send him any more messages.
Author Max00 Posted November 30, 2018 Author Posted November 30, 2018 I’m stupid. Should I send another better picture?
Wallysbears Posted November 30, 2018 Posted November 30, 2018 I’m stupid. Should I send another better picture? Nope. He's shown you that he is shallow. drop him and move on.
Saracena Posted November 30, 2018 Posted November 30, 2018 Guys don't want to see a woman without makeup, etc. until they actually LIKE her and definitely not before a first date. Well, I must be the exception then (and I certainly don't mean this in a condescending way) but I rarely, if ever, wear any!
ExpatInItaly Posted November 30, 2018 Posted November 30, 2018 I hate to say it, but I think you're correct that he has lost interest, OP. No, I would not send him another photo. Just leave it be.
smackie9 Posted December 2, 2018 Posted December 2, 2018 I’m stupid. Should I send another better picture? Nope. What is done can't be undone.
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