max3732 Posted November 29, 2018 Posted November 29, 2018 Someone I chatted with very briefly with OLD and scheduled to meet this Saturday has sent me a few random pics (not of her), which I haven't seen yet with OLD and seems a bit odd to me. What makes me a bit uncomfortable is that her pic on the dating site is from far away and a weird angle so I can't tell that well what she looks like and whether or not I find her attractive. She sent me a message showing what she had for dinner and another one the scenery she saw while driving. Obviously there's nothing objectionable or weird about this pics, but since I haven't even met her face to face yet and we only had a few lines of chat I'm not really sure how to react to this. The reason I messaged her was he have some things in common, but I may see her and decide in 2 seconds she's not right for me. If that's the case does it seem like it may be difficult to break it off with her if she's already sending me all the pics?
preraph Posted November 29, 2018 Posted November 29, 2018 Undoubtedly, she is not going to look like a model or anything if she's putting cryptic photos of herself up that you can't really see her. I would just not say anything about that though and see if she ever decides to show you a pic of her real self. Have you asked her to Skype with you? That would get to the bottom of it real quick.
Author max3732 Posted November 29, 2018 Author Posted November 29, 2018 Undoubtedly, she is not going to look like a model or anything if she's putting cryptic photos of herself up that you can't really see her. I would just not say anything about that though and see if she ever decides to show you a pic of her real self. Have you asked her to Skype with you? That would get to the bottom of it real quick. No, but she lives pretty close to me so meeting her won't be a huge inconvenience. I just don't know what to make of the random pictures and what to do after meeting her. I just opened up her profile again and if I zoom in I can kind of see her face, but it's really hard to tell. You can see her body and it looks fine. As far as her education, interests, work, etc we have a lot in common. If her personality is great too but I just don't find her attractive should I try and put her in the friend zone? Usually I get the "let's keep in touch as friends" line and I've never done it to someone else. If she's really not attractive in person I don't want to hurt her feelings and tell her the truth. Not sure how I'd handle this over Skype any easier.
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