Destini Posted November 29, 2018 Posted November 29, 2018 I guess she found out about the child we have on the way from Facebook and mentioned it to him after he was constantly messaging her and she ignored him until she finally said she knows he has a child on the way from his Facebook Post. He just told her despite having a baby on the way that he was always gonna love her regardless and that she was gonna be his best friend for life. I had snooped through his phone. Now I just want to have the baby, call off the engagement and sacrifice dealing with custody and everything else. How should I tell him though? Considering I shouldn’t have been going through his phone.
ExpatInItaly Posted November 30, 2018 Posted November 30, 2018 I guess she found out about the child we have on the way from Facebook and mentioned it to him after he was constantly messaging her and she ignored him until she finally said she knows he has a child on the way from his Facebook Post. He just told her despite having a baby on the way that he was always gonna love her regardless and that she was gonna be his best friend for life. I had snooped through his phone. Now I just want to have the baby, call off the engagement and sacrifice dealing with custody and everything else. How should I tell him though? Considering I shouldn’t have been going through his phone. This is the least of your problems with this guy. Be honest you went through his phone. It's irrelevant how you found out anyway, considering you're going to end the relationship. You have to stop signing up to participate in your own misery with this clown. Time to get your head out of the clouds and take control of your own life. This was never going to end well for you, and you know it.
d0nnivain Posted November 30, 2018 Posted November 30, 2018 Just leave. Go home to your family. While you going through his phone wasn't the best, at least now you know what we have been telling you all along. This man never wanted you or the baby. I'm sorry for you & more sorry for the child. Through the child, you are tied to this jerk forever, but don't worry. He will never follow through with any of his obligations because he has always viewed you & this baby as disposable. Just go home. Let him chase you if he wants a connection with his child. Don't deny him that but do make sure he pays CS. Also do say a proper goodbye to his relative that you currently live with.
elaine567 Posted November 30, 2018 Posted November 30, 2018 He is a 23 yo guy who has never really got over his ex. You stuck on in there hoping he would take you seriously. make you his number one, but he hasn't and she is still there "the love of his life" and now you have a baby on the way... You have no-one really to blame here but yourself. You were warned and warned and warned here on LS, but you went lalala with your fingers in your ears and strode straight right into trouble, ever optimistic that it all was so "wonderful". NEVER and I repeat NEVER get involved with people who hold grimly onto an ex. The ex has to be respected as being a serious threat to any relationship you may have, so best to stay away and avoid totally. Please listen, get away from him, go home. Make a new life for you and the baby.
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