Jack2000 Posted November 28, 2018 Posted November 28, 2018 Damn this month been tragic So I dated this girl for 2 months we broke up 2.5 months ago, we broke up because she wasnt feeling it so she dumped me but came back 2 weeks later to be friends and I didnt agree... she kept reaching out like every 2 days even asked to face time I said I dont mind but we never called each other since the break up... I cut her off by making her jealous which led to her deleting me but we still got each other on facebook... Shes my first ever gf and the first girl I ever had any interactions with sexually... I terribly miss her we havent spoken in 5 weeks... And somedays im fine and somedays im not right now I feel down as hell, I miss her a lot the one thing that pisses me off is this guy in her class that keeps specifaclly recording her and posting on his snapchat story... He's got a gf and I knew a bit before my ex broke up with me but the fact he keeps recording her as if they were dating is really annoying at this point and its really weird also the fact he has a girlfriend is really weird but oh well what can I do.. How can I get over her I know for a fact she expects me to reach out but Im never going to since she did the dumping I never begged or anything the day she broke up with me I only asked why? and agreed to it thats it. What do you guys think?
preraph Posted November 28, 2018 Posted November 28, 2018 Well, if she did the dumping, then you're right for just letting her go. Listen, most women are perfectly happy remaining "just friends and nothing more" with guys they break up with. Because their priority isn't sex and they like chitchatting with friends and having a handy escort at times. So you're more invested than her and I can tell by her actions that she doesn't even know what it's like yet to have deeper feelings for someone or she'd have some empathy for you and not demand things you can't give. Just do yourself a favor and move on. Don't let her pretend she still owns you. You don't want the other women to think you're taken because you're seen with her or on her social media or on your own. Clean break, and move on and find a new love. Good luck.
Author Jack2000 Posted November 28, 2018 Author Posted November 28, 2018 Well, if she did the dumping, then you're right for just letting her go. Listen, most women are perfectly happy remaining "just friends and nothing more" with guys they break up with. Because their priority isn't sex and they like chitchatting with friends and having a handy escort at times. So you're more invested than her and I can tell by her actions that she doesn't even know what it's like yet to have deeper feelings for someone or she'd have some empathy for you and not demand things you can't give. Just do yourself a favor and move on. Don't let her pretend she still owns you. You don't want the other women to think you're taken because you're seen with her or on her social media or on your own. Clean break, and move on and find a new love. Good luck. Yeah you're right its best to move on but I always wondered what to do if she reaches out? How to respond if I still like her?
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