QueenMay Posted November 27, 2018 Posted November 27, 2018 Hello! I am a girl, very bad at showing interest (I heard it from some guys I was seeing...) and also noticing any signals from men. There is a guy at my work who often offer me help at work, always was responding fast when I was asking him for help, saying 'Hi' to me and my name each time we saw each other, even from afar. When I helped him with something he was sending me "thanks <3", once we locked eyes while passing each other for longer than normally and he smiled at me. Sometimes he would come to my desk to talk about something work related even though it wasn't really needed. Once I've noticed that while we were talking his hands were shaking. At first I was not interested in him but he is was so helpful and kind that I started to be attracted to him. The problem is we do not talk much especially about personal life. I know he is single for sure. Do you think he could be attracted to me? PS. I tend to avoid guys I like and pretend I am not interested in them which is my problem.
smackie9 Posted November 27, 2018 Posted November 27, 2018 So why do you do that? You are going to be a lonely girl. Guys love a flirty girl...those kind of girls get all the attention right? They have guys falling over themselves to ask her out. So you need to step it up if you want to get anywhere with this.
d0nnivain Posted November 27, 2018 Posted November 27, 2018 Solely from what you described, I have no idea. You need to interact with him more. Perhaps mention a movie you would like to see to see if he gets the hint. You could also try to get a group together to go out after work & see how her interacts with you in that setting
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