Hurururu Posted November 27, 2018 Posted November 27, 2018 Hi. Last week I had match with very pretty girl on tinder. I'm 5 maybe 5.5/10, she's 7 or higher. We've talked, and We'll have a meeting and probably sex. I'm confused, because I don't know what attracts her in me? Maybe this profile is fake, but it seems legit, there are 5 photos, description etc. Do You have similar experiences, and can tell me about them?
d0nnivain Posted November 27, 2018 Posted November 27, 2018 Don't rate people with #s. She sees something in you. If you are attracted to her, just do on the date. If you asked her, she'd probably say she's a 5 & you're a 7.5 It's all subjective. 1
Garcon1986 Posted November 27, 2018 Posted November 27, 2018 Yes you should always sort out if this person is real. If she is, you've got a problem that most guys on this forum would pay money to have. Ask her about herself and see if she asks about you on Tinder. The few times I've had super attractive women swipe right with me on Tinder were flakes, or fake news hehe. If you have a real date with a real woman, you should go for it. Let us know if you need help distinguishing if she is real. 1
Sarah_Smiles Posted November 27, 2018 Posted November 27, 2018 Is it just expected on using Tinder you will have sex? I do not use OLD sites so no idea. She liked what she saw on your profile so who cares if she is hotter than you, she obviously finds you plenty hot if she wants to meet up so why find issues? Just go on date and have fun!
Author Hurururu Posted November 27, 2018 Author Posted November 27, 2018 @Sarah_Smiles She made me understand - of course not directly - that sex is possible on our meeting. I found issues, because that never happend to me, and I'm suspicious about that its only a joke xd
smackie9 Posted November 27, 2018 Posted November 27, 2018 @Sarah_Smiles She made me understand - of course not directly - that sex is possible on our meeting. I found issues, because that never happend to me, and I'm suspicious about that its only a joke xd If it sounds too good to be true then it is......there are a lot of prostitutes working the OLD sites. 1
Garcon1986 Posted November 27, 2018 Posted November 27, 2018 There is also such a thing as police posing as prostitutes, so make sure you are dealing with a real person.
Art Anderson Posted November 28, 2018 Posted November 28, 2018 There is also such a thing as police posing as prostitutes, so make sure you are dealing with a real person. Coincidentally, it was only a week ago that I was offering a friend my opinion that police offers posing as prostitutes were usually too good looking; that was their give away. That was going from experience with female cop friends who were tasked to hooker patrol sometimes and they were just far too good looking in comparison to street workers. Maybe for a call girl though they'd fit in. We'll see if this guy is getting back to us with the news on what happens.
snowboy91 Posted November 28, 2018 Posted November 28, 2018 The reason I don't like the numbers scale is because it's both too subjective and too narrow. If we purely think about physical looks, there are too many things about a person's appearance to consider to summarise it into a single number. And even if we could, we all have our own preferences so what you consider to be a 10 could only be a 6 to me, and vice versa. She has her own preferences of what she is attracted to, and she's attracted enough to you to want to meet you. And you find her attractive enough to come on here worrying about a hot girl being interested in you. Lucky you! Enjoy the "meeting"
carhill Posted November 28, 2018 Posted November 28, 2018 Are dating site scammers common in your country? Is she local to you?
d0nnivain Posted November 28, 2018 Posted November 28, 2018 I found issues, because that never happend to me, and I'm suspicious about that its only a joke xd I understand. When I was younger I was terrified of being the brunt of a cruel HS prank. When I was a freshman in HS, the captain of the JV football team asked me out using a note given to me by his friend, another football player. It made no sense to me that a football player would want to date me. I assumed it was a cruel joke, designed to humiliate the smart girl, so I said no in a nasty decisive way & stormed off. I felt proud of myself that I didn't let those mean jocks hurt me. Years later the football player told me how crushed he was by my response. I had been the 1st girl he ever tried to ask out & I was mean to him. Until then I had no idea that even seemingly popular athletes could be insecure too. It never dawned on me that I wasn't the only one worried. He'd at least had the courage to try. I just ran away. So my advice to you is meet the woman. Be vigilant that she's not a scammer but since all you know at this point is a profile, give her the benefit of the doubt.
thefooloftheyear Posted November 28, 2018 Posted November 28, 2018 Could be a scam, so you always need to watch out for that...A buddy of mine nearly sent 10K to some Ukranian "woman" that he met online thought he was her Prince...He was so convinced, I nearly had to beat sense into him to not send the money... That being said... If you take a look at most couples, the woman is usually at least a notch better looking than the guy...I wouldn't just assume there is something not right... If it is legit and you start dating this woman, one thing you can't do though, is get hung up on the fact that shes better looking than you are...It will forever put you in a state of doubt and uncertainty... TFY
khalessi Posted November 29, 2018 Posted November 29, 2018 Could be a scam, so you always need to watch out for that...A buddy of mine nearly sent 10K to some Ukranian "woman" that he met online thought he was her Prince...He was so convinced, I nearly had to beat sense into him to not send the money... That being said... If you take a look at most couples, the woman is usually at least a notch better looking than the guy...I wouldn't just assume there is something not right... If it is legit and you start dating this woman, one thing you can't do though, is get hung up on the fact that shes better looking than you are...It will forever put you in a state of doubt and uncertainty... TFY I agree dont assume and try it out. Also have more confidence in urself that's important for what you're doing...
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