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I ran into my ex-fiance in the bank!


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I've ran into my ex-fiancé twice since we broke up. The reason for us breaking up is that a girlfriend of mine noticed him with an ex-girlfriend of his and when I confronted him about it he lied and when I mentioned that my friend saw them together then he finally admitted it. It probably would have bothered me that he went out with someone else but when he tried to deny it I said that I didn't want to see him again. If had had told me the truth from the beginning we would probably still be together or even married by now. We're both in relationships now. He's with a girl that I've never met before and I've been living with my now boyfriend for about seven months. The first time we ran into each other (literally) was at the mall about eight months ago, I remember because I had just found out that I was pregnant about a week before. My boyfriend and I are renting an apartment only three minutes from the bank. I can still manage a three minute walk even at 39 weeks but just barely. Anyway I walked in behind him last Friday standing in a very long bank line. We had a polite discussion about how we both were doing and he congratulated me on the baby and as if on cue my son began kicking and moving under my maternity top. I knew that he could see it and I just smiled at him. It was about then that I thought he was going to faint dead away! I don't know if it was the fact that I was so huge or that he saw my son kicking and moving. I wonder if he still has feelings for me. It's probably too late for us to even consider getting back together and I'm pretty happy in my relationship with my boyfriend now! I took some satisfaction in seeing him squirm though :)

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Wow. 39 weeks pregnant with somebody else's child & you are wondering if your EX still has feelings for you? Even if he does, that should not make any difference. You are with somebody else & you know that your EX can't be trusted.

 

Get your head in the game. You have a child to raise.

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Maybe he was just thinking what a lucky escape he had and that's why he squirmed.

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Maybe he was doing some quick mental arithmetic.

November minus 9 months...

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Maybe he was just thinking what a lucky escape he had and that's why he squirmed.

Maybe it was a little cold to want to see him squirm but he was a liar and a cheat.

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Yeah he was probably grossed out by the movement of your stomach. I don't have kids but the first time I say that happen to my pregnant friend I was completely freaked out. I can imagine if you are the child's parents a different response is had.

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