Arty Posted September 13, 2005 Posted September 13, 2005 Narcissists, do they ever give up on you? Sick of the crap from my N partner at the end of trying to break up so many times and me and him playing the cycle of 'love' game (what a joke) I ended up yelling at him that I had someone else and to f*off the relationship is over. I had to tell him a few times because of the denial stuff. It was totally out of the blue for him, he had no idea what was coming. (I didn't even know I was going to do it, just happened, desperation I guess). Now he is trying to abandon me (making out he broke off with me), obviously can't cope with the fact of me doing the dumping. Anyhow, sitting here waiting for retaliation or smooth talk (experienced both for so long, know the pattern now) can't believe he will let go so easily, wanting to believe it though. Wondering if anyone knows if they ever do give up, if he is now so disgusted in me being a whore as he put it, will he let go? He has not contacted me constantly for 4 days only rang me twice, longest ever without him chasing etc. Might be playing another mind game though, he is so irrisistable I will come crawling back because I can't live without him stuff. Help! I think his messing with my brain again. (Now I am doubting see, is he really a narcissist? maybe its just me, I'm just a crazy person who goes too far etc) I am really tired of playing this game, it is draining and all I want to do is get on with my life. At the back of my mind though is him and what is he up to with me and what will he do next (abusive type). It is like I have to keep guard of myself all the time. I am in the NO CONTACT period, very difficult stuff. Trying not to obsess and get on with my life. I know he doesn't love me(physical, mental, emotional, verbal abuse proved that) why am I still trying to believe there was something there. Is this really the end?
jc Posted September 13, 2005 Posted September 13, 2005 Yes this is end, if you choose for it to be. He is obviously not that irresistable if he drives you to break up with him. He's not the only one playing games here...you are a participant. You are choosing to play the game. If you let him go, you'll thank yourself for it in the end.
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