Partner doesn't seem happy with the real me

[frankspeci]

People it's not just about the clothes, he has also pointed out she has np posting photos of her orbiters on her social media but none of him with her, and she blew him off when he wanted to take a selfie together at a damn bonfire...now that says something about how she actually feels about him. He did COMMUNICATE to her by asking why, and she gave some lame ass excuse about she didn't need to, she can hold it in her memory...like that is so not right. This isn't on him about his "lack of communicating" to her....she has an excuse for everything. That's why he's has enough.

 

It doesn't sound promising but it also sounds like shes on autopilot, coasting, not made starkly aware of his issues. Hes said himself that hes never brought these things up to her, and from his description hes been very passive thus far.

 

I think clearly stating his issues will clear things up on exactly where things stand as opposed to just an intuited negative feeling.

 

More excuses, then yeah call it quits.

[fromheart]

She'll control you more and treat you like a possession, should you move in. Its a form of abuse, don't tolerate it.

 

The 'friends,' she met traveling were definitely not just friends. Trust me, I've done a fair amount of traveling.

 

For your own sake, better to get rid of her.