An odd observation I've noticed amongst white guy asian female couples

[EthanBlack]

In my 20's, when I wanted to explore more of my Asian heritage and make more Asian friends, I'd routinely run into Asian girls who told me they don't date Asian guys. Then I'd see these Asian girls, many of whom ranged from pretty to gorgeous, go out with the most average looking white guys ever. And that's just looks. It's not like these guys made a lot of money or had any kind of high social status either.

 

Over time, as I came across more of these types of couples, I've noticed it's the Asian girls who are passive-aggressive and almost hostile to me even though

 

There was a case where this couple had trouble getting into my building because they were new tenants and didn't know how to use the fob. Being a good neighbor, I just went in there and helped them. The white guy was very personable and said thank you and just your typical nice Canadian white guy. The girl would say NOTHING to me. No thank you. No smile. Pretended like I didn't exist. Here I am helping them and even having a nice chat with her boyfriend and I get this kind of passive aggressive hate.

 

Asian girls have a strange psychology. There are two types. The ones that don't date Asian guys and only date white guys have this haughty/snobby behavior towards Asian guys who are interested in them. The ones who do like Asian guys, they're SUPER friendly and easy to ask out on a date. Iti's like two extremes.

 

And no, I'm not mauling these girls. If you guys know anything about me from my posts, you'll notice that I even have trouble "escalating" when on dates. So I'm not mauling or being overly aggressive when asking these girls out on dates. So there's something else at play here with this type of behavior.

 

With white girls, even if she's not interested, she'll politely decline and will sometimes even have a nice conversation with you. And if she is interested, she doesn't act overly eager.

 

So with Asian girls, it's either they're desperate for a white guy on their arm for high social status and possibly cute Eurasian kids in the future or they want to settle down with a supposedly, nice, safe Asian guy.

[Garcon1986]

Are you asking for the Asian ladies internal rubric of attractive guys to change, to start liking Asian guys? If so how do you propose to make that happen?

[BaileyB]

Ah Ethan, if only you could turn your attention and this obsessive analysis to something purposeful... like solving world peace.

 

Do you actually have a question with this post? Or, is this just a lecture, a summary of your thoughts and observations...