VedderisBetter Posted November 21, 2018 Posted November 21, 2018 (edited) I used to work with this girl who was super cute. I first stared at her as she walked by me and she gave me a big smile. I saw her check me out from across the room once and again once as she passed me and thought I couldn’t see her but I did peripherally and then I finally introduced myself to her. I then asked her out on Facebook to a concert but she didn’t reply. She may have been wanting me to ask her out in person because she started saying hi or hello every time we were around each other. It never progressed past me saying hi back. Then right before I left the job I told her I was leaving and gave her my cell and said we should meet at a park sometime. She may have thought that was weird since we never got to know each other but I explained in the message how I have social anxiety. I did hear her say hi to a stranger in the hallway so it could’ve been friendliness. I just found it very suspicious when she started greeting me like a day or two before the concert. Also one time it was just me and her walking by each other and she smiled for a few seconds then looked at the ground as we passed each other. I guess I blew this opportunity lol. Was this chick into me or was I looking too into it? Edited November 21, 2018 by VedderisBetter
Garcon1986 Posted November 21, 2018 Posted November 21, 2018 The danger in dating your coworkers is the awkwardness or professional liability if things go south. Second - you have to conquer your social anxiety. Women will reject you right and left if they hear you be this wishy washy again. If you want a woman to date you, it is your holy responsibility to ask her out on a date as a proper and complete gentleman. Otherwise, she's going to read this as, he's not man enough to even ask me a question - how good of a boyfriend can he be (whether this is a fair assessment or not, it's what she sees you as now). The most likely response here is that she was being professional and kind because it's the workplace, and she doesn't want anything awkward happening. Your best bet is to rid yourself of social anxiety and date as much as you can handle outside work.
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