snailz Posted September 13, 2005 Posted September 13, 2005 hi all, My boyfriend broke up with me two months ago after about a year, i missed him so much but decided the only way i would get over him is by going out meeting new people and having fun. I met this girl who i instantly clicked with and we have been spending time together (just friends) however here's the problem- My ex has been hanging around me alot recently and i was stupid and ended up sleeping with him again, he told me the real reason we broke up was because he had feelings for another girl- my new friend emma. (i didnt even know they knew each other, he didnt know i knew her either) but he had asked out her and she knocked him back because she is bi-sexual and preferes girls. When i asked her about it, she told me that seeing as though we were being honest with each other- she doesnt like him in anyway although she kind of has developed feelings for me. So what can i do? my ex who im crazy about has feelings for my friend who has feelings for me- im not interested her in that way at all. he also says he misses me alot but how can i trust him? and what should i do about my new friend? she hates the fact that i have feelings for my ex and he hates the fact that she has feelings for me. its a bit of a weird triangle, plz help. is there any way i can stay close to both of them without it getting too complicated
Taby Posted September 13, 2005 Posted September 13, 2005 if you're interested in pursing a relationship with your ex, then i'd make it sure that before you do that he no longer has any feelings for this girl... then take it from there with him... tell your girlfriend that you are not interested in girls, but boys, and that you and your ex are trying things out again (if that is the case) keep your friendship with her, and your relationship him him. keep things seperate... and if you do want to hang out with both of them at the same time, i'd at least wait until you and your ex have a stable relationship...
Candy Cane Posted September 15, 2005 Posted September 15, 2005 I advise to dump them both. It's too messed up. Find some new and healthy friends.
Author snailz Posted September 16, 2005 Author Posted September 16, 2005 Thankyou for your replies, since i last wrote there have been some small changes. my ex told emma he really liked her, this is after he spent the night at mine telling me how glad he was we were spending time together. what a loser. she told him she wasnt interested. she is moving house out of our area 2morra so i dont think ill get to see her that often anyway. i should probebly stay away from both of them. its hard because i love my ex but what can i do??? thanks again.
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