mjt12 Posted September 12, 2005 Posted September 12, 2005 Hey all! My ex and I broke up about 4 months ago. I went thru phases of being friendly with him and then NC. Right now we are speaking again and seeing what happens. Here is the deal. He is 21 and I am 27, he tells me that he loves me and knows that he is going to be with me and just needs me to be patient with him because he is scared.( Mostly because he is young and doesnt feel like he can live up to a 27 year olds idea of a relationship) I love him very much. I want to make this work between us. However, the "I need time" thing is making me crazy, it is turning me into this person that I dont want to be, constantly nagging at him and questioning him about everything which in turn is pushing him further away. So what should I do? Play hard to get? Act like I dont want him. I am not one for games, but I do want him to realize what the hell he wants. Thanks very much to any one who responds.
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