LoverOfDance Posted November 17, 2018 Posted November 17, 2018 You are still talking to him? lol. You know, this is how ppl get into confusing "grey area" relationships. 3 months from now you'll come back here with a post titled "I'm not sure what we are". You seem like you don't know what you want. Just be careful so that you don't get yourself into that kind of relationship that keeps you constantly and perpetually confused. There was a time when I didn't know what I wanted out of dating. During this time, I just chatted with people. I didn't make any real efforts to find someone. I didn't travel to another country and spend days waiting to hang out with someone "I didn't want a commitment from". If you don't know what you want, take a step back and just chill, chat and observe. When you know what you want then go for it. PS. young men on tinder should always be on probation at least for a couple of months. This is because most of them on there are really just playing around. Yes, this means you shouldn't be shocked when they seem flaky. Out of curiosity, what country do you live in?
Author donotmicrowave Posted November 17, 2018 Author Posted November 17, 2018 (edited) You are still talking to him? lol. You know, this is how ppl get into confusing "grey area" relationships. 3 months from now you'll come back here with a post titled "I'm not sure what we are". You seem like you don't know what you want. Just be careful so that you don't get yourself into that kind of relationship that keeps you constantly and perpetually confused. There was a time when I didn't know what I wanted out of dating. During this time, I just chatted with people. I didn't make any real efforts to find someone. I didn't travel to another country and spend days waiting to hang out with someone "I didn't want a commitment from". If you don't know what you want, take a step back and just chill, chat and observe. When you know what you want then go for it. PS. young men on tinder should always be on probation at least for a couple of months. This is because most of them on there are really just playing around. Yes, this means you shouldn't be shocked when they seem flaky. Out of curiosity, what country do you live in? I believe I mentioned above that closeness and affection is what I’d be happy with, there’s also a term called “casual dating”. I did not travel here to meet him, I extended my stay by 1.5 days though, have made other plans now and having a good time. I do tend to be taken aback when someone acts like kind of a jerk. Not comfortable with sharing my country. Edited November 17, 2018 by a LoveShack.org Moderator
LoverOfDance Posted November 17, 2018 Posted November 17, 2018 Dude, you do not know what you want. With this attitude, you will "casually date" someone, fall for them (since you get attached quickly) and then start wondering where you stand with that person. You are unsure and your mind is foggy when it comes to dating. If you continue this way, you are likely to end up in a situationship. I know that you traveled for work and not mainly for him. The point is that you extended your stay for him. That is too much priority being given to someone you only want to date "casually". You say you're listening but i'm not sure you really are. 2
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