Jonesey Posted May 26, 2001 Posted May 26, 2001 Hi, i met this girl that i'm really into. My question is how can i be a bit aloof without being too distant. I don't want to scare her off, and i would like to see if she is truly interested and will pursue. If a week goes by and she hasn't called yet, is that too long? How long should i wait before writing this one off? I know she's interested, she told me so. She just doesn't know exactly what she wants. Please help. Thank you for your responses.
*Juliana* Posted May 27, 2001 Posted May 27, 2001 Hi, i met this girl that i'm really into. My question is how can i be a bit aloof without being too distant. I don't want to scare her off, and i would like to see if she is truly interested and will pursue. If a week goes by and she hasn't called yet, is that too long? How long should i wait before writing this one off? I know she's interested, she told me so. She just doesn't know exactly what she wants. Please help. Thank you for your responses. I believe in The guy calling. This girl maybe too shy to call you. i don't think waiting for her call is a good idea. try calling her first, go out a few times, and if you don't like her, tell her so. Communication is the bast way to find out what you need to know.
Jonesey Posted May 27, 2001 Posted May 27, 2001 I believe in The guy calling. This girl maybe too shy to call you. i don't think waiting for her call is a good idea. try calling her first, go out a few times, and if you don't like her, tell her so. Communication is the bast way to find out what you need to know. We've already been out a couple of times. Now if it were up to me, i'd call everyday, but i don't want to scare her off and would like to see how interested she really is. I think she's great, just don't want to chase too much this early on..... i don't know. I don't really like to play these games, but seems like that's the advice everyone is giving me.....
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