dateme Posted November 14, 2018 Posted November 14, 2018 This hasn't happened to me but it has my friends. In my opinion it's cray to bring a kid around a dude on a date. She's basically saying take care of us. Women share on this.
PRW Posted November 14, 2018 Posted November 14, 2018 Things she could be saying... I don't date much, and I don't know what I'm doing. She's sayin'...you ain't gettin' in my pants tonight! I couldn't find a babysitter, but I wanted to meet with you so bad that I did what I had to do to make it work These are what you will have to get used to and be ok with if you are going to be dating me. Might as well get used to it now. (Her to you) You still paying for the date now? 1
divegrl Posted November 14, 2018 Posted November 14, 2018 Maybe they got tired of paying for babysitting. Have a beautiful day my friend. 1
Author dateme Posted November 14, 2018 Author Posted November 14, 2018 Things she could be saying... I don't date much, and I don't know what I'm doing. She's sayin'...you ain't gettin' in my pants tonight! I couldn't find a babysitter, but I wanted to meet with you so bad that I did what I had to do to make it work These are what you will have to get used to and be ok with if you are going to be dating me. Might as well get used to it now. (Her to you) You still paying for the date now? Lol. All those are funny and desperate. Note to women. It's not a good look no matter what is in your mind. You'll never keep a good man like this.
Gaeta Posted November 14, 2018 Posted November 14, 2018 Maybe he should be slow to judgment and see how things go on 2nd and 3rd date. A good female friend of mine went on a 1st date with a man from online. He showed up with his 6 year old son. He apologized saying his babysitter cancelled last minute. They had a coffee and the kid has ice cream. They have been together 15 years. 2
Author dateme Posted November 14, 2018 Author Posted November 14, 2018 Maybe they got tired of paying for babysitting. Have a beautiful day my friend. Lol. Oh well.
Cojack123 Posted November 14, 2018 Posted November 14, 2018 This hasn't happened to me but it has my friends. In my opinion it's cray to bring a kid around a dude on a date. She's basically saying take care of us. Women share on this. Iran also not smart to let you child see that. You should be comfortable with who you allow your children to be around. Of course if this is a few dates in it may be okay. Also I think women get tired of dating someone who doesn’t accept they have a kid. And they of course want someone who will be good daddy material if it gets to that point. I would do the same with my kids on dates. Fortunately me and my girlfriend both have kids so when we got to a point of dating and being around each other more it was okay dates and quality time.
kendahke Posted November 14, 2018 Posted November 14, 2018 She's basically saying take care of us. No she isn't. She's saying that her babysitter bailed and it was too late to cancel on you and give you yet another reason to complain about some woman not meeting your expectations or not being worthy of your attention. Now, at the time she told you that the children would be there, you could have cancelled on her, blocked her number and never deal with her, since this is your estimation of her. Doing that would be doing her the best favor.
Author dateme Posted November 14, 2018 Author Posted November 14, 2018 No she isn't. She's saying that her babysitter bailed and it was too late to cancel on you and give you yet another reason to complain about some woman not meeting your expectations or not being worthy of your attention. Now, at the time she told you that the children would be there, you could have cancelled on her, blocked her number and never deal with her, since this is your estimation of her. Doing that would be doing her the best favor. Didn't happen to me. But it happens. So I posted. It's something that happens on dates.
kendahke Posted November 14, 2018 Posted November 14, 2018 Didn't happen to me. But it happens. So I posted. It's something that happens on dates. Wanting someone to call and confirm on the day of is considered bad form around here, but so is not confirming when your babysitter has bailed and you show up with the tots in tow. So I guess people are going to have to get clear on which scenario they should go with to avoid issues like this in the future.
hotpotato Posted November 14, 2018 Posted November 14, 2018 No she isn't. She's saying that her babysitter bailed and it was too late to cancel on you and give you yet another reason to complain about some woman not meeting your expectations or not being worthy of your attention. Now, at the time she told you that the children would be there, you could have cancelled on her, blocked her number and never deal with her, since this is your estimation of her. Doing that would be doing her the best favor. That depends. There are women who want a man to take care of them and they're children. I don't know about this woman in particular. Op, does your friend have a good job, house, and make good money? Does this woman make good money? Did the woman say her babysitter bailed?
WomenWubber Posted November 14, 2018 Posted November 14, 2018 Wow I had this happen to me once, both of her kids (2) at that! She was a pokemon nerd just like me. We ate pizza and had a great time. Did not call her again lol.
ExpatInItaly Posted November 14, 2018 Posted November 14, 2018 This hasn't happened to me but it has my friends. In my opinion it's cray to bring a kid around a dude on a date. She's basically saying take care of us. Women share on this. There isn't a universal response to this, OP. What were the reasons these women gave for bringing their children? Circumstances and context are important before judging.
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