wtfhappend Posted November 12, 2018 Posted November 12, 2018 We sat in my truck n i told her how i feel. She just wouldnt show me love. I could see in her eyes that she wanted to be there beside me. But its like her pride told her not to give in. I poored my heart out. I told her how much i love her. I said it all. She just says that she doesnt know what to say n that shell wait to talk to the councellor. She says she just doesnt want it anymore n that im confusing her. I dont want to lose my family. Im doing everything in my power to keep us together. But im the only one holding on. I dono what a marraige councellor will say or do. Its like im in and shes out. Is it even possible to save. Can i rekindle the spark before its to late. I havent slept in weeks. I have hardly eaten. This lonliness is killing me. She seems like shes made up her mind but vehind the mask i can see she doesnt want to end it. Its so confusing Help. What do i do.what else can i do. Just walk away from 8 years of my life. Walk away from my family. Todays our aniversary. Please help:'(
Garcon1986 Posted November 12, 2018 Posted November 12, 2018 I think I remember the story from your previous thread, you've gotten yourself into a deep hole. For right now, little sleep and little food is never ok no matter what the circumstances. Maybe it's ok for BUD/S military training but that's not what you are doing right now. Please take care of your health. I think you've reached the end of her patience? If you can't convince her to go to couples counseling together, well I mean you can't drag her by the arm. If you've tried to talk to her nicely about counseling and she doesn't want it, then that's it. I'm sending you sympathies for having to go through this, it's one of the worst things that people have to deal with.
Marc878 Posted November 12, 2018 Posted November 12, 2018 We sat in my truck n i told her how i feel. She just wouldnt show me love. I could see in her eyes that she wanted to be there beside me. But its like her pride told her not to give in. I poored my heart out. I told her how much i love her. I said it all. If she's not in there isn't a thing you can do. Your pursuing will just push her farther away. You are project your feelings onto her. She doesn't feel that way about you She just says that she doesnt know what to say n that shell wait to talk to the councellor. She says she just doesnt want it anymore n that im confusing her. She's trying to be nice only. You can't accept it I dont want to lose my family. Im doing everything in my power to keep us together. But im the only one holding on. You can't make her love you or anything else I dono what a marraige councellor will say or do. Its like im in and shes out. Is it even possible to save. Can i rekindle the spark before its to late. Only she can fix her. All you're doing is making it worse I havent slept in weeks. I have hardly eaten. This lonliness is killing me. She seems like shes made up her mind but vehind the mask i can see she doesnt want to end it. Its so confusing More projecting. She's telling you and showing you but you just don't want to believe it. Help. What do i do.what else can i do. Just walk away from 8 years of my life. Walk away from my family. Todays our aniversary. Please help:'( Let her go.
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