thebiglimp Posted November 7, 2018 Posted November 7, 2018 first date went great, kiss at the end, and then she kinda went cold over the text the next week, keep being iffy about setting up the next date. so i ask her bluntly- i might have blow it with you but i wanna see you again soon, do you wanna make plans? her answer- yeah let's arrange something soon. my response- i could travel to you this time, tit for tat (she traveled to me last time) and she's read it and hasn't responded. how long should i wait, what should my next response be? i just feel like writing 'if you're just being polite and not really feeling it, please let me know. i prefer direct answers.'
lurker74 Posted November 7, 2018 Posted November 7, 2018 Sorry mate, it's time to move on. You're being back burnered. I would simply not send anything. What is the point when she has read your text and not responded? Good thing is there's lots of other people in the world. 1
shydad Posted November 7, 2018 Posted November 7, 2018 i just feel like writing 'if you're just being polite and not really feeling it, please let me know. i prefer direct answers.' Hi thebiglimp, I would not send that message. It seems pushy. I'd wait at least 24 hours, then I'd send a basic message to get her attention and see if she responds. This could be something like, "Hi! Would you be interested in meeting for lunch this weekend?" If she ignores this, I'd throw in the towel.
basil67 Posted November 7, 2018 Posted November 7, 2018 I find it odd that she travelled to you on the first date - and I wonder if it put her off. How did it come about that she travelled in your direction first? Was she the one doing the chasing?
basil67 Posted November 7, 2018 Posted November 7, 2018 Is it the same woman from this thread?https://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/dating/668726-what-kind-friendzone
ExpatInItaly Posted November 7, 2018 Posted November 7, 2018 Is it the same woman from this thread?https://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/dating/668726-what-kind-friendzone Same question, OP. If it is, you need to take the hint: she is not interested.
d0nnivain Posted November 7, 2018 Posted November 7, 2018 Just let this go & never send another woman a message admitting that you think you blew it.
smackie9 Posted November 7, 2018 Posted November 7, 2018 Is this the same one you were having a crying sesh with? Dude that ship has sailed. 1
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