JosiePosie Posted September 12, 2005 Posted September 12, 2005 I couldn't take my bf's moodiness and emotionally withdrawing anymore. We have been experiencing problems the past month and a half. We have talked and I have been trying to be positive ever since. But it has been hard trying to improve the relationship when my bf's hasn't made any effort. So I got up and packed a bag to stay with a friend for awhile. I left a note saying that I can't live in that environment and that he should go speak to the same spiritual counsellor as I have. I love him alot and understand that I need to let go of emotional baggage. It has been affecting how I behave in relationships. But he needs to accept that our relationship is not going to be perfect. I don't know...maybe a timeout is what we needed. I just needed to stand up and not allow myself to be in that situation for now. I needed to vent.
Jayhawks Posted September 12, 2005 Posted September 12, 2005 Every relationship goes through up and downs. If yours was different then you would be unique. The real test is how you handle the down time. Sometimes a break is good but not to long or things will be to weird between the two of you if you get back together. See how much you miss each other and then try to work out your differences. Rome wasn't built in a day and love takes time to mature. If he refuses to listen to you then you have your answer. Peace...
Author JosiePosie Posted September 12, 2005 Author Posted September 12, 2005 I hope that we are able to work things out. I have been feeling powerless the past week or so. And going home to someone who has been withdrawn has been stressful. I needed to get my strength and power back. I guess there is a reason why we are going through this.
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