pepperbird Posted November 6, 2018 Posted November 6, 2018 If you are a betrayed spouse who found out your spouse was having/ had been in an affair, how did you first become aware they were cheating? How did you react? I'm just asking for interest's sake, not for myself.
Lotus_Luna Posted November 6, 2018 Posted November 6, 2018 I told my husband about the affair myself. He didn’t really seem to care for a few days.
Gaeta Posted November 6, 2018 Posted November 6, 2018 He emptied his pocket on my desk because I kept all of our receipts. Among his receipts I found ID and password to a dating site. I used them, found his profile, read his messages. I confronted him he tried to gaslight me, it worked for a while. Of course from there I started being suspicious so I'd look in his pocket, his car. I found multitudes of clues like hotel keys, phone numbers, even women's clothes in his car.
hurtbyher99 Posted November 6, 2018 Posted November 6, 2018 I went through her phone and found about 3 months worth of texts
Orokotikki Posted November 6, 2018 Posted November 6, 2018 Well, the very tip top of the iceberg was when I put an insurance document she needed in her purse on my way to work and noticed birth control in the purse. I gave her the benefit of the doubt, but when behavior seemed odd I checked emails (on the ipad I had given her, engraved with "To my loving wife, <name>" on the back) and saw the iceberg for what it was.
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