riceboy Posted September 11, 2005 Posted September 11, 2005 Hi all, My girlfriend and I have been dating for a total of 6 yrs and we've lived together 2yrs out of the six. Anyhow We have seem to have lost our spark and passion. Has anyone experienced this? And have you been able to get that back? Please give me some advice. We both are willing to work on this.
JadeStar Posted September 12, 2005 Posted September 12, 2005 It happens sometimes when people have been together for awhile. People get to comfortable and start to lose the things they once had. Try to remember what brought you all together to begin with. Try to rekindle that by doing some of the things you first did when you first started dating. Little things can be important to women. A love note, flowers, etc. Go out on a date, to the movies and dinner etc. I think most people can get back the spark/passion they once shared but they have to be willing to put forth the effort to at least try. Jade
Dean3922 Posted September 12, 2005 Posted September 12, 2005 Romance takes work. It doesn't just stay at a high level because you want it to. You need to talk about your relationship when things are not going as you hope. You also need to realize that time changes relationships, just as you yourself have changed over the last 6 years. You probably have gotten in the "comfortable rut" and you need to spark up your interest. Remember when you first started going out. Be spontaneous and do something unexpected. Women love romance so be romantic and your love life will increase exponentially.
LucreziaBorgia Posted September 12, 2005 Posted September 12, 2005 Have you asked each other what you think would help bring it back?
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