jgraham11 Posted November 1, 2018 Posted November 1, 2018 EDIT *Not sure what happened to my title* It was supposed to read "Woah, I'm confused" So I was talking to this girl I really liked about 5 months ago on OKCupid. Things were going well and then she just kind of went MIA on me after asking her out, so I thought okay whatever. Then she popped up on my Match around 1 month ago liking me on there and I messaged her saying something like "Funny seeing you here" We then exchanged numbers on Match and spoke a little bit. I tried to meet up with her, she agreed, but then again we kind of lost touch. It didn't help that I went on a vacation for two weeks right around that time. Now she just ended up following me on Instagram out of the blue, so needless to say I'm freaking lost. I did ask her again though if she was still interested in meeting up and she said yeah.. I don't know the likelihood of that happening though. I feel like I'm being stalked, but at the same time she keeps flaking on me..
Garcon1986 Posted November 1, 2018 Posted November 1, 2018 This is simply a girl who is shopping for options, who doesn't think you are interesting enough to fully devote her attention. I wouldn't pay her too much attention unless she demonstrates her real commitment to going out on a date with you. Knowing any fairly attractive lady, she has probably 900 messages in her inbox and is gossiping with her girlfriends about the plusses and minuses of dating you plus the last 10 guys she went out with. The ball is firmly in her court, and the more you ask her when are we going to meet, the more she will get uninterested in you. Walk away and don't look back like a man You are free to shop as much as she is.
Nilfiry Posted November 1, 2018 Posted November 1, 2018 The fact is that if a girl is really interested in you, she will usually be more than willing to take the initiative. Like the previous user said, she is probably just shopping around and not all that particularly interested in you.
Author jgraham11 Posted November 1, 2018 Author Posted November 1, 2018 The fact is that if a girl is really interested in you, she will usually be more than willing to take the initiative. Like the previous user said, she is probably just shopping around and not all that particularly interested in you. Yeah but to legit keep coming back in some way is kind of.. telling no? I mean how many social media accounts is she going to message me on before just meeting up.. Kind of weird
rightondude Posted November 2, 2018 Posted November 2, 2018 Yeah but to legit keep coming back in some way is kind of.. telling no? I mean how many social media accounts is she going to message me on before just meeting up.. Kind of weird some people just collect likes.
d0nnivain Posted November 2, 2018 Posted November 2, 2018 She only wants virtual -- on the sites, not in person.
MaleIntuition Posted November 2, 2018 Posted November 2, 2018 Hmm, the other dates didn’t work out, she probably want you to ask her out again. Or she is just seeking attention. Message her something lightheartedly on instagram: “Third time’s a charm? drinks on Saturday 7pm at #cosey-place?”.
Nilfiry Posted November 2, 2018 Posted November 2, 2018 Yeah but to legit keep coming back in some way is kind of.. telling no? I mean how many social media accounts is she going to message me on before just meeting up.. Kind of weird That hardly counts as coming back. You use social media, so you should know that people often add or follow others that they barely know--if at all--just to have more. She is probably like, "I recognize this guy! *add*"
smackie9 Posted November 2, 2018 Posted November 2, 2018 She's a time waster if your intention is to find someone to date. All she is doing is socializing and being an attention addict. Some people don't see anything wrong with doing this....typical millennial stuff. Get off the pot and spend your time asking interested women out.
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