Jmurray1990 Posted November 1, 2018 Posted November 1, 2018 So.....me and my ex had a relationship for 5 years but in last year we was going down hill. At the moment my ex lives in Spain with my son and i work on a oil rig for 3 weeks at a time and with my time off i live in Spain for 3 weeks, i moved there 1 year ago for her to be with her family and friends. but i don't have any friends but i do have a older family friend lives there. my biggest problem with living there is i try my hardest to ignore her then as soon she asked me go out as a family i cave in and i end up staying the night at her house. Ive asked her a few times why are we not giving this another go, she sees that our son is happier when its just the 3 of us but its that always she confused and she wants to be with me but not right now and she see a future but to give her space. so i gave her space and then she was texting 25 times a day and phoning me, when she was picking up our son i would let i family friend do it and if she text me i would only answer if it was about my son. so i got my flight back to Scotland, me and my ex didn't speak for about a week and messaged her so i could Facetime my son, she ignored it, message later on saying when can i Facetime my son i want to see him. she reply "its not very nice when people ignore you". she asked me to give her space and i gave it to her she angry with me for doing so. I text her yesterday to get answers i'm needing so i can move on, but i just got the same answers as before but i push her a little bit more and she got angry told me were never getting back, there is no future. so i replied thank you and blocked her number on whats app an hour or so later she phoning me on instagram to video chat my son. (she always been difficult to video chat me normally have to message her few times to get it). now shes saying she wants to come to Scotland for a few day so get the rest of her stuff, teeth whitening kit and few cheap jackets. I don't understand why she's doing this or am i overthinking this situation ?
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