JessieG Posted November 1, 2018 Posted November 1, 2018 June 2016 I met this wonderful man. We started dating.. I was completely in love with him. A few months later he confessed to being married with 3 kids but my foolishness and being in love ignored it and kept the relationship going. We called at least 2 hours per day and he regularly visited me and we took trips together. October 2018 I didn’t feel well and he announced he was taking a family vacation with his wife and kids. I lost it and told him to cut that trip of or else I would tell her everything. He cried to me saying please don’t... but I was raging and got jealous and wanted him with me. It resulted in him confessing it to his wife. The wife contacted me saying she knew all about it and was willing to forgive him. I was devastated though it was my own fault. She took posession of his phone, email and social media accounts to make sure the contact between us would stop. After her call to me I barely spoke to him without her present or listening in on us. The two times I did spoke to him alone he was very friendly and nice and willing to talk to me and help me cope with this yet whenever she found out about our contact.. he would call me again with her saying it is over and never wanting to talk to me again. I feel like I can’t move on cause I didnt have closure and I have been emailing him, texting him and calling him at work to get his attention but nothing... we have a skype account and I have been sending messages every day so when he reads it one day he will know how sorry I am and I really loved him. The mornings are tough for me.. the rest of the day I am doing ok. Can I move on without closure or should I try to get his attention and ask him for one last talk? And how can I cope with the horrible mornings? I watch the clock every morning until I know he is leaving his house. I try calling him and texting him but when I get no reply my world is tumbling down and I start crying. Every morning..
PRW Posted November 1, 2018 Posted November 1, 2018 You don't need closure. You need a new guy. Go hunting. You screwed around with a married man who has kids, and now you are expecting it to be something different than what it really is. You are the "Other Woman". Do you really expect him to walk away from his family to have you, and then his Ex brings the kids over on holidays and they are going to treat you like their new cool step-mother? That is not going to happen. You will be seen as the woman who broke up the family, the kids will see you as the one who broke up "Mom & Dad".
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