Louisesarah Posted October 31, 2018 Posted October 31, 2018 My friend introduced me to a woman (she’s gay ) Straight away we got on. The three of us went away for a night away and I think we were flirting. She was asking what type of things I enjoy,then she told me how she’s gay and worries she will never meet anyone. After we got back I posted that I wanted to go to a festival,she messaged me saying she was going and I should go and I would enjoy myself. She then invited me to a family party and I just felt a spark (you know you get a feeling) I caught her checking me out but she quickly stopped when she seen I was looking. My friend told her I was joining them for a night out And she responded that she was pleased. The first time we met she started dancing with me but mutual friend told her to stop (she thought I wouldn’t of been into it ) What do you think? Could she find me attractive? Or just friendly ?
Lotsgoingon Posted October 31, 2018 Posted October 31, 2018 She sounds interested. Now keep in mind "interested" simply means liking you on first impression and interested in getting to know you better, with her mind open to romance. But that's only one side of the question. The other side is: are you interested in her? The problem with asking if she's interested in you is that you give her all the power. That's how people end up in terrible relationships ... Oh, she's interested, therefore, I'm interested. And ... YOU have a role in finding out her level of interest. You only find out if you guys have real chemistry if you show interest. Right now this woman is likely asking someone: do you think SHE (you) is interested? So if you're interested, show some enthusiasm. We don't get an official notice through the mail that someone is interested in us ... We pay attention to their actions and we also pay attention to how WE feel when with them. She's making it plain that she wants to spend time with you ... and I don't sense she's discussing "office concerns." Go for it.
smackie9 Posted November 12, 2018 Posted November 12, 2018 The only way to find out is to ask her out.
Author Louisesarah Posted January 22, 2019 Author Posted January 22, 2019 Thanks everyone. I still like her,still haven’t done anything about it but really really want too.
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