sala93 Posted October 29, 2018 Posted October 29, 2018 (edited) Hey, My ex (who I only just yesterday, I think, posted about) messaged me this morning after months of not hearing from him, saying he's in town. Last time I saw him (months ago, which was months after we broke up) we hit it off so I had always hoped since then that we'd see each other again. (Read my recent other thread to understand my situation). Because I still have feelings for him I replied with a friendly reply. And inside hoped we'd see each other today. He only read my reply at the end of the day, and hasn't replied yet, it's night time now. I'm sick of feeling how I feel with this guy. I think this has helped cement into my mind that this guy is flaky and I feel like he is breadcrumbing me and doesn't care about me, he just wanted the opportunity open to maybe see me and hook up but maybe another opportunity came up. I don't know what it is on his end, but I'm feeling like my respect for and trust in him has dropped to low now. Please give me some advice to move on from him. I feel like it's never over with him and I haven't been able to move on since early this year. I just really feel so excited whenever I see him in a way I never felt with anyone else. Edited October 29, 2018 by sala93
ExpatInItaly Posted October 29, 2018 Posted October 29, 2018 It's time to block him. You won't get over him if you keep allowing him access to you.
Author sala93 Posted October 29, 2018 Author Posted October 29, 2018 I don't know why but part of me feels a bit of hope or second-guessing, like *maybe* he isn't bad, and like I don't want to block him until I know for sure the truth that he is stringing me along. I feel like I don't have closure on what's going on.
stillafool Posted October 29, 2018 Posted October 29, 2018 He doesn't view you as a priority but an option and a better choice came about which is why he didn't contact you. He is making it clear. If you want to move on block him from contacting you so you won't expect texts and phone calls from him.
Author sala93 Posted October 29, 2018 Author Posted October 29, 2018 Yeah I feel so angry that he would do that. Do guys like that realise how much they look like jerks?
ExpatInItaly Posted October 29, 2018 Posted October 29, 2018 Yeah I feel so angry that he would do that. Do guys like that realise how much they look like jerks? In my experience, no. They don't. They aren't emotionally invested enough to get it. 1
Author sala93 Posted October 29, 2018 Author Posted October 29, 2018 Does this mean he's doing the same thing with other girls? How could they find that attractive either. Or if he's not breadcrumbing them, something feels wrong about him reaching out to me at the same time as pursuing someone else.
ExpatInItaly Posted October 29, 2018 Posted October 29, 2018 He might be doing the same with other girls. I doubt anyone would find it attractive, exactly, but some might not care if all they're looking for is a little casual fun. 1
preraph Posted October 29, 2018 Posted October 29, 2018 Tell him next time that you have a boyfriend and can't see him.
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