ProfessorOptics Posted October 28, 2018 Posted October 28, 2018 When a girl says to you, "I don't know what you see in me" how does one respond to that appropriately?
Garcon1986 Posted October 28, 2018 Posted October 28, 2018 I would tell her exactly what's on your mind without mind games or manipulation. For example, I admire what you've done, or I admire that you always have a smartypants humorous remark about something, or that you really made the best of a bad situation. If you haven't been with her a long time the intimate racy stuff is obviously inappropriate. Women like to be admired for anything else other than their good looks until she is comfortable with you. I know its paradoxical, but women dress up nice and then don't like being admired by guys. You can admire the good looks when you have been with your date for a while.
Author ProfessorOptics Posted October 28, 2018 Author Posted October 28, 2018 I would tell her exactly what's on your mind without mind games or manipulation. For example, I admire what you've done, or I admire that you always have a smartypants humorous remark about something, or that you really made the best of a bad situation. If you haven't been with her a long time the intimate racy stuff is obviously inappropriate. Women like to be admired for anything else other than their good looks until she is comfortable with you. I know its paradoxical, but women dress up nice and then don't like being admired by guys. You can admire the good looks when you have been with your date for a while. We've known each for about a month now. She knows I am attracted to her, and I'm confident that it's not one sided. She's not a big texter, but she likes being around me, and says I make her smile. And I see lot more than just her looks, she's smart, caring, honest, loyal to name a few.
Garcon1986 Posted October 28, 2018 Posted October 28, 2018 We've known each for about a month now. She knows I am attracted to her, and I'm confident that it's not one sided. She's not a big texter, but she likes being around me, and says I make her smile. And I see lot more than just her looks, she's smart, caring, honest, loyal to name a few. Then tell her to her face she's smart because of ... she's loyal because of ..., and she's caring because of ..., and bring up some admirable examples. Most ladies I know would appreciate that sort of honest well thought out comment.
preraph Posted October 28, 2018 Posted October 28, 2018 Yeah, tell her she's smart and you enjoy being around her. She has some low self-esteem and doesn't feel worthy. You know what that's like, so I think you know how to make her feel better, right?
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