rightondude Posted October 28, 2018 Posted October 28, 2018 Last night I had a date with a woman I met on Tinder. We'd gone out for lunch previously and kissed for awhile after the lunch date. It was hot! We planned on going to a Halloween party last night. Fast forward to then... This woman is an internet model and has the best body I have ever seen. She seemed a little flighty on our first date but nice enough. First thing that happened is that she did not like my costume. It was kinda weak. She spent 20 minutes trying to fix it up. We left my place and went to a really nice trendy restaurant. She took pictures of the meal and selfies but posted nothing about being with me. No big deal as I understand not wanting that out there on a second date. The chef/owner came over to ask how everything was. Actually he was probably just trying to move on her; every man in there was checking her out. I've never been out with a woman who every man in the restaurant blatantly gawked at. It was crazy. Anyway, we left, and as we got in the car, she told me the owner had grabbed her butt as we were leaving. She didn't say it as if she was offended. I wasn't sure what to say in response. We got to the party and she found her friends that were there. From that moment on I think I talked to her like 2 minutes total. Adding to that, there was one point she and her (female) friend got sexual on a bench at the venue. While it was probably one of the sexiest things I've ever seen, it wasn't done for my entertainment. She showed 0 interest in me whatsoever and seemed like she didn't want to be seen with me at all. As it got late, I told her I was leaving and she was like, OK, I'm staying. I said bye and got an Uber home. Her car stayed at my place all day and she finally picked it up this evening. She asked if I wanted her to come in and hang out, I said sure, and we ended up kissing pretty passionately as she left. I didn't say anything about the night before because honestly I never planned on seeing her again and didn't see the point. Now she's texted me a couple of times with pics of her just lazing around her house. Weird. Not really looking for advice because I don't plan on pursuing it any further, but if anyone has any words of wisdom please share.
Normm Posted October 28, 2018 Posted October 28, 2018 Next time try an Iron Man costume, they're pretty cool this year.
Lotsgoingon Posted October 28, 2018 Posted October 28, 2018 She sounds like a diva ... someone who knows she attracts the attention of guys ... and enjoys dates ... enjoys kissing ... flirting ... The problem is you might just be a generic guy ... easily replaceable to her ... Her behavior at the party is a red flag ... She recovered a bit by coming up to your place the next day ... But the pix are of her and her looks right? ... You'll get bored with her really fast ... and probably not the last time you'll feel ignored when with her. It's one thing to be with a stunning woman who pays attention and focus to you. There are high-quality people out there who will do that ... just because it's a date and even if they aren't all that into you ... this kind of person will make it clear that you are the priority for the date and for the night. Anyway, have fun one or two more times and you'll most likely want to move on ... Sounds like a great story to share with friends at a bar.
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