ProfessorOptics Posted October 26, 2018 Posted October 26, 2018 Why would a woman say she cares about what I think, and she can't explain why?
smackie9 Posted October 26, 2018 Posted October 26, 2018 It means she has a compassionate type personality.
Author ProfessorOptics Posted October 26, 2018 Author Posted October 26, 2018 It means she has a compassionate type personality. Is that good or bad?
smackie9 Posted October 26, 2018 Posted October 26, 2018 Depends.....she can be dependable, stands up for people, a good listener....on the flip side people can take advantage of her, wipe their feet on her, can be too passive and she gives mixed signals to lonely guys.
kendahke Posted October 26, 2018 Posted October 26, 2018 Why would a woman say she cares about what I think, and she can't explain why? Would you prefer she didn't give a damb?
Lotsgoingon Posted October 27, 2018 Posted October 27, 2018 What's the context? I mean a coworker who respects my work definitely cares what I think. A friend who respects my thinking and experience will care what I think. Doesn't mean they will totally agree. People care what their dating partners think of their clothes. So there are so many different contexts that it's hard to answer you.
Author ProfessorOptics Posted October 27, 2018 Author Posted October 27, 2018 What's the context? I mean a coworker who respects my work definitely cares what I think. A friend who respects my thinking and experience will care what I think. Doesn't mean they will totally agree. People care what their dating partners think of their clothes. So there are so many different contexts that it's hard to answer you. Well, there is romantic interest on her part. she's not a coworker, she's not a friend.
Author ProfessorOptics Posted October 27, 2018 Author Posted October 27, 2018 Would you prefer she didn't give a damb? No, I'm trying to figure her out and why of all people she cares what I think
basil67 Posted October 27, 2018 Posted October 27, 2018 No, I'm trying to figure her out and why of all people she cares what I think You said there's romantic interest on her part - that's why she cares what you think. She would also care about your thoughts if you were her brother or friend. We care about the feelings of those we want in our world.
elaine567 Posted October 27, 2018 Posted October 27, 2018 Well, there is romantic interest on her part. she's not a coworker, she's not a friend. Is this your friends gf?
Author ProfessorOptics Posted October 27, 2018 Author Posted October 27, 2018 Is this your friends gf? No, that ship sailed long ago.
elaine567 Posted October 27, 2018 Posted October 27, 2018 When did she say it and in what context? eg. You: No-one cares about what I think... Her: I care about what you think.
Author ProfessorOptics Posted October 27, 2018 Author Posted October 27, 2018 (edited) When did she say it and in what context? eg. You: No-one cares about what I think... Her: I care about what you think. No she responded to a post I shared: "Women don't care what a man did 5 years ago, or even 5 minutes ago. What she cares about is what her man does in this moment to show his love and support for her." She responded with a message ending with, "sometimes we do care what people around us think". So I asked her... "Do you care what I think?" She said "I do." I asked, "why?". She said "I can't explain." She says i make her smile... Edited October 27, 2018 by ProfessorOptics
JuneL Posted October 27, 2018 Posted October 27, 2018 No she responded to a post I shared: "Women don't care what a man did 5 years ago, or even 5 minutes ago. What she cares about is what her man does in this moment to show his love and support for her." She responded with a message ending with, "sometimes we do care what people around us think". So I asked her... "Do you care what I think?" She said "I do." I asked, "why?". She said "I can't explain." When you’re interacting with another human being, you have to care what s/he thinks. It’s just social psychology 101. Are you also attracted to her? If yes, have you asked her out already? If not, is she one of those who “have trouble with their weights” like you mentioned in another thread?
smackie9 Posted October 27, 2018 Posted October 27, 2018 Sounds to me she's fishing to see what you think of her....in a romantic way.
Lotsgoingon Posted October 27, 2018 Posted October 27, 2018 So are you asking if she is interested in you? I mean I'm a bit confused. Friends always care what their friends think. Doesn't mean friends will follow their friends' advice. But of course, I care what my friends think. "Care" doesn't mean "agree with" ... or "comply with." So I'm confused. You literally think people don't care what their friends think? I assume you ARE friends with this woman--at least. By definition, friends are people whose views we care about. Friends are part of our life GPS system. We partly choose friends because we like the way they think and act in the world.
Author ProfessorOptics Posted October 28, 2018 Author Posted October 28, 2018 When you’re interacting with another human being, you have to care what s/he thinks. It’s just social psychology 101. Are you also attracted to her? If yes, have you asked her out already? If not, is she one of those who “have trouble with their weights” like you mentioned in another thread? No she doesn't have issues with her weight, and I am attracted to her. she's intoxicating to look at, and I do see her in a romantic light. Sounds to me she's fishing to see what you think of her....in a romantic way. is that good?
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