sabaton Posted October 27, 2018 Posted October 27, 2018 There is a long involved story here, it is not as simple as just waitresses saying Hi or not... https://www.loveshack.org/forums/general/general-relationship-discussion/608329-why-do-women-go-out-jerks yeah, when I was reading his posts it kinda hit me that this guy must be suffering from a neurological disorder, but the way he is so aggressive and violent makes me feel that he suffers from other psychological disorders as well. He got that, ''why do women go out with physically attractive men that I call jerks because they get the hot women that I want but can't have, I am such a nice guy I deserve women way out of my league'' vibe to him after I read that thread.
Author bradt93 Posted October 27, 2018 Author Posted October 27, 2018 yeah, when I was reading his posts it kinda hit me that this guy must be suffering from a neurological disorder, but the way he is so aggressive and violent makes me feel that he suffers from other psychological disorders as well. He got that, ''why do women go out with physically attractive men that I call jerks because they get the hot women that I want but can't have, I am such a nice guy I deserve women way out of my league'' vibe to him after I read that thread. I have bipolar and aspergers and are you making fun of those disorders?
Author bradt93 Posted October 27, 2018 Author Posted October 27, 2018 I guess I should just settle with the fat ugly women right? no.
Redhead14 Posted October 27, 2018 Posted October 27, 2018 Well, I saw this girl who I was talking to on facebook who I knew from high school and I asked her, if she had a b/f and she said yea and I said okay. Well, I was scrolling through match and she had a profile up. I created a fake FB account to confront her about it and she said "he's not my type" What I don;t understand is why don't women just tell you honestly they're not interested in you instead of lieing and saying I have a "b/f" don't they know that's hurtful? How do you know she's lying? Why can't it be that she has a boyfriend and you aren't her type and she's not interested in you? Stalkers wouldn't be her type either. why don't women just tell you honestly they're not interested in you -- Because they don't want to hurt anyone. You'd be hurt anyway if she said that, yes? Get a thicker skin and if a girl says she has a boyfriend, just leave her be.
Normm Posted October 27, 2018 Posted October 27, 2018 You made a fake FB profile and then the fake you asked the girl you like why she doesn't like the real you and she said "he's not my type" and that makes you mad? There's a lot wrong with that! 1- You are mad because she's lying and you are lying as well. 2- It's REALLY stalkerish to go to such lengths, more than creepy even. In answer to your question, why wouldn't she be honest? It's hard to say something that will be hurtful to another person, it's awkward, uncomfortable, and you never know how the person may react- they may get angry, they may get violent, they may get upset and cry. You may not understand this with your Aspergers but people don't want to create those types of uncomfortable situations so they tell what is called "innocent white lies" which avoid the confrontation and spares the person the hurt and insult of being told they're not good enough. 2
preraph Posted October 27, 2018 Posted October 27, 2018 I guess I should just settle with the fat ugly women right? no. Or women with similar issues as you yourself have.
preraph Posted October 27, 2018 Posted October 27, 2018 I guess I should just settle with the fat ugly women right? no. There's no guarantee fat ugly women would go out with you either. Just because they are fat doesn't mean they don't have some of their own requirements in a mate. Being nice would be high on the list.
Author bradt93 Posted October 27, 2018 Author Posted October 27, 2018 You made a fake FB profile and then the fake you asked the girl you like why she doesn't like the real you and she said "he's not my type" and that makes you mad? There's a lot wrong with that! 1- You are mad because she's lying and you are lying as well. 2- It's REALLY stalkerish to go to such lengths, more than creepy even. In answer to your question, why wouldn't she be honest? It's hard to say something that will be hurtful to another person, it's awkward, uncomfortable, and you never know how the person may react- they may get angry, they may get violent, they may get upset and cry. You may not understand this with your Aspergers but people don't want to create those types of uncomfortable situations so they tell what is called "innocent white lies" which avoid the confrontation and spares the person the hurt and insult of being told they're not good enough. Wel, she's not better than me that's for damn sure. I'm going to be college educated, she's just a landscaper working at a landscaping business.
Author bradt93 Posted October 27, 2018 Author Posted October 27, 2018 There's no guarantee fat ugly women would go out with you either. Just because they are fat doesn't mean they don't have some of their own requirements in a mate. Being nice would be high on the list Being nice doesn't work anymore apparently.. You have to be a jerk to get a womans attention.
sabaton Posted October 27, 2018 Posted October 27, 2018 I have bipolar and aspergers and are you making fun of those disorders? Who's making fun of disorders? We're just talking about how common it is for guys to talk about how they deserve a beautiful woman when they have nothing to offer in return(looks, charisma, money). I guess I should just settle with the fat ugly women right? no. Do you look like the male equivalent women you want to get with? Are you tall? Handsome? Tall and handsome? Muscular? Charismatic? beautiful women in the western world are a rarity. Very attractive women are very valuable because of how rare they are, but women who are thin and pretty and have a great personality in the western world can expect a guy who is much, much more attractive than the 'average' guy. If you don't want to be with womeone who aren't conventionally attractive you don't have to be. There's nothing wrong with being a lifelong bachelor.
Normm Posted October 27, 2018 Posted October 27, 2018 Wel, she's not better than me that's for damn sure. I'm going to be college educated, she's just a landscaper working at a landscaping business. She might not be any better than you but she isn't here (or anywhere else) complaining about you. 1
Author bradt93 Posted October 27, 2018 Author Posted October 27, 2018 How do you know she's lying? Why can't it be that she has a boyfriend and you aren't her type and she's not interested in you? Stalkers wouldn't be her type either. why don't women just tell you honestly they're not interested in you -- Because they don't want to hurt anyone. You'd be hurt anyway if she said that, yes? Get a thicker skin and if a girl says she has a boyfriend, just leave her be. She was my friend since high school, well not anymore. That's what hurts me. If she told me the truth like this, Brad it's nothing personal, but I don't see you in that way. I would've been okay with it, but no she was a coward.
sabaton Posted October 27, 2018 Posted October 27, 2018 Being nice doesn't work anymore apparently.. You have to be a jerk to get a womans attention. Being nice doesn't work anymore apparently.. You have to be a jerk to get a womans attention. Men who are nice and genuinely like women aren't going onto forums and wishing the women who rejected them get hurt in the future because they wanted to sleep with these women and they said no, even if indirectly. Women aren't a video game, dude. You don't be fake nice and then gorgeous maidens fall in love with you and make babies with you and have a little forever after. Most women aren't interested in jerks. You're talking about men who are confident and funny and have something about them physically that makes them sexually attractive, or they're pretty charming and that makes attractive women want to date them. Those guys aren't treating women like crap, and if you do try to treat women like crap the only place you're going to end up at is with a restraining order issued by those women. 1
sabaton Posted October 27, 2018 Posted October 27, 2018 Wel, she's not better than me that's for damn sure. I'm going to be college educated, she's just a landscaper working at a landscaping business. I'm college educated. That doesn't make me better than the people who are working sweeping streets or carrying the trash we fill those trash street-cointainers with to dispose of it. She was my friend since high school, well not anymore. That's what hurts me. If she told me the truth like this, Brad it's nothing personal, but I don't see you in that way. I would've been okay with it, but no she was a coward. Nah. If she had come out to you and said, ''Sorry brad, but I'm not interested in you in that way'' you would be here creating another thread complaining that women only want jerks and how a nice guy can't catch a break and how he has to settle with ''fat, ugly women'' because ahem, women only want men who treat them badly, am I right? 2
Author bradt93 Posted October 27, 2018 Author Posted October 27, 2018 I'm college educated. That doesn't make me better than the people who are working sweeping streets or carrying the trash we fill those trash street-cointainers with to dispose of it. Nah. If she had come out to you and said, ''Sorry brad, but I'm not interested in you in that way'' you would be here creating another thread complaining that women only want jerks and how a nice guy can't catch a break and how he has to settle with ''fat, ugly women'' because ahem, women only want men who treat them badly, am I right? Okay, how did you handle being rejected in the past?
sabaton Posted October 27, 2018 Posted October 27, 2018 Okay, how did you handle being rejected in the past? I smiled and I moved on, by changing the subject.
Author bradt93 Posted October 27, 2018 Author Posted October 27, 2018 Maybe it takes more time than I realize to find that special someone.
sabaton Posted October 27, 2018 Posted October 27, 2018 Maybe it takes more time than I realize to find that special someone. Yes, usually it takes time to find someone special.
TunaCat Posted October 27, 2018 Posted October 27, 2018 Dude, you need to get a grip! She turned you down and your reaction to that rejection was more immature than my teenage brother has ever been. She dodged a major bullet. Anyone who wouldn't tip a waitress just because of a perceived slight is not worth any high quality woman's time.
Author bradt93 Posted October 27, 2018 Author Posted October 27, 2018 Dude, you need to get a grip! She turned you down and your reaction to that rejection was more immature than my teenage brother has ever been. She dodged a major bullet. Anyone who wouldn't tip a waitress just because of a perceived slight is not worth any high quality woman's time. Don't care. A waitress "high quality" lol.
sabaton Posted October 27, 2018 Posted October 27, 2018 Don't care. A waitress "high quality" lol. Do you define a person's quality as a human being based on the college education that person has an the amount of money made??? 1
preraph Posted October 27, 2018 Posted October 27, 2018 Former celebrities who were waitresses/waiters: Madonna Pink Eva Mendez Mariah Carey Chris Rock John Hamm Jennifer Anniston Sandra Bullock Speaker of the House John Boehner State Representative Moira Walsh
Author bradt93 Posted October 27, 2018 Author Posted October 27, 2018 Former celebrities who were waitresses/waiters: Madonna Pink Eva Mendez Mariah Carey Chris Rock John Hamm Jennifer Anniston Sandra Bullock Speaker of the House John Boehner State Representative Moira Walsh You don't know this girl, she won't amount to anything. She drinks too.
preraph Posted October 27, 2018 Posted October 27, 2018 So if you think absolutely nothing positive about her, why on earth to you care if she says hi to you or not? P.S. Just about every young person drinks.
Normm Posted October 27, 2018 Posted October 27, 2018 You don't know this girl, she won't amount to anything. She drinks too. Sour grapes, nothing more. "Since I can't have her, I don't want her." 2
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