kscholze Posted September 10, 2005 Posted September 10, 2005 how long do you all wait to have sex with someone?
megabit15 Posted September 10, 2005 Posted September 10, 2005 If you just want sex with no emotional strings - anytime is fine If you want declarations of love, then wait until HE says it first. For myself, I want to know that it will be an exclusive thing between the two of us. This only happens when the GUY says he does not want to see anyone else. I NEVER ask him to be exclusive. I don't want just sex, I want a MUTUAL emotional connection first. So in general, I need to trust a guy (as much as possible - you NEVER really *know* someone). I check whether his actions match his words. I see whether he remembers what I say, and gauge whether I am important to him. Does he call enough or view me as a convenience if there is nothing better to do? Does he seem interested in what is going on in MY life as much as I am interested in his or does he change the subject whenever I talk? And of course: Does he kiss well? I find if I don't like the kissing, the sex tends not to be so good either.
Author kscholze Posted September 10, 2005 Author Posted September 10, 2005 you are right about the kissing. Im a guy BTW. I was with this girl for about 2 weeks and she kissed with her teeth. Worst kisser ever. (wonder how someone doesnt know how to kiss well) anyway she wanted to have sex, but she wasn't into it, (she just laid there, seemingly not having any fun) So I didnt have sex with her. I think I hurt her feelings.
megabit15 Posted September 10, 2005 Posted September 10, 2005 Don't think I've ever seen a guy ask that question! So are you asking this question because your new girlfriend is holding out on you or do you want to know for yourself? And kissing - well - different strokes for different folks. I had this guy who wanted to stick his tongue to the back of my mouth! Felt like I was suffocating and it was very invasive! BIG turnoff for me. For him - well, he apparently liked it! We can only measure against what we find a turn on. You know, I betcha there's actually SOMEONE out there who likes teeth!
Author kscholze Posted September 11, 2005 Author Posted September 11, 2005 So are you asking this question because your new girlfriend is holding out on you or do you want to know for yourself? I dont know
RainyDayWoman Posted September 11, 2005 Posted September 11, 2005 I abstain from most people forever . that was great. i was thinking the same thing.
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