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Long story short I have been getting a lot of mixed signals from my crush who has a boyfriend. She acts like we are dating but our official title is "really good friends".

 

I can not do this anymore, its not fair to her, its not fair to her BF and its not fair to me. I want to break contact with her for good because it hurts to much ti pretend to just be her friend.

 

Should I just become busy and fade away or should I tell her why I am leaving?

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Either is OK. Which one will give you more peace?

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I agree with donnivan, either is okay. It doesn't sound like this is healthy for you and you need to put your well being first. If you fade away, she'll probably get the drift and understand why. If you tell her why, hopefully she'll understand and not form resentment toward you. Sometimes we get too close to the fire and get burned. Been there.

 

If you fade away and put distance between you, I think that's good. Whatever you decide to do, don't just stuff your feelings and hold them or you could blow up and that's not healthy either....so sometimes it's good to tell people the truth and get it off your chest; whatever your style of managing your emotions is. Let peace be the "final" product here. Like Donnivan said, which one will bring you more peace?

Edited by MountainGirl111
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