jamessmith Posted October 22, 2018 Posted October 22, 2018 Me and my girlfriend have been dating for 7 months now and we are both 17. We both really like each other and used to make out and touch a ton in our cars but it was super uncomfortable so we stopped. We Both agreed it was bad in the car and when I asked where else we could even do stuff we both agreed when our parents aren’t home. I have a couple questions relating to this. Recently she came over when my parents weren’t home but we never did anything. She hasn’t mentioned anything sexual or trying anything else. When she came over she always didn’t say or do anything. I might also add that when we did stuff in the cars she initiated everything and was eager. I want to do more things with her but i don’t know how to bring it up. It’s like she has completely forgot about the sexual part of our relationship. It’s been a good two months since we have done anything. Should I bring something up, if so, how? Thanks!
stillafool Posted October 22, 2018 Posted October 22, 2018 She is probably waiting for you to be more assertive. Don't ask her just kiss her and let your hands roam. Girls like to be pursued and for the boy to be the aggressor.
Author jamessmith Posted October 22, 2018 Author Posted October 22, 2018 So like next time we are at either of our houses alone I should try to make a move. Like kiss her, make out, and start touching her?
Chilli Posted October 22, 2018 Posted October 22, 2018 Of course. Why are you expecting her to do your job and to be the brave one , why has she had to do everything so far. ??? No wonder she's stopped, poor thing. But if something has changed for her or she isn't interested anymore she'll let you know if you go too far , don't worry about that, and then you can talk about whatever it is. Don't try too hard or force it just go like stillafools said .
Lotsgoingon Posted October 22, 2018 Posted October 22, 2018 Time to use that human skill of communication ... Hey there, so what do you want to do physically? What are you comfortable with. Seems like you liked making out in the car. But you seem more uncomfortable now. To prepare things, get clear on what you want ... and connect with you want to your appreciation of her. I really want to touch you and make out with you and do more. I feel so comfortable with you .... Couples talk about these matters. We can't read each other's minds.
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