Normm Posted October 23, 2018 Posted October 23, 2018 I do clearly I was on her mind last Saturday at 12:30 in the morning , although she was mad, I was still on her mind That much is certain. As was Lee Harvey Oswald's mind on John F Kennedy as he stood in the book tower window aiming a rifle at the presidential convoy. 1
bathtub-row Posted October 23, 2018 Posted October 23, 2018 She seemed to be happily done with this I am trying to decipher this sudden development What happened is “human nature” — people are completely unpredictable.
Author ragegnst Posted October 23, 2018 Author Posted October 23, 2018 funny, but once again that was not really my point
Author ragegnst Posted October 23, 2018 Author Posted October 23, 2018 What happened is “human nature” — people are completely unpredictable. bathtub-row, do you have any similar experiences?
bathtub-row Posted October 23, 2018 Posted October 23, 2018 bathtub-row, do you have any similar experiences? Not really. I mean, I’ve broken up with guys before. Once was a guy I was really crazy about but he got on this kick about me not loving him as much as he loved me. I was a newly separated single mom and had a lot going on. It was getting so tough for me that I talked to the guy about me having some time to myself. He didn’t like that, decided I didn’t love him and began acting distant. The last thing I needed was another person pressuring me so we talked about it and broke up. For 3 months, I was so entrenched in my life I couldn’t have told anyone what I did during that time. Anyway, the former bf and I got back together but it was a mess and didn’t last. But when I was ready to get back with him, I really really wanted him to contact me. And he did. Things didn’t work out because he had dated some drama queen after we broke up and she didn’t accept being dumped very well, nor did he handle it well. I lost respect for him over that, and other things. I don’t know what your ex is so pissed off about but apologies and bravely sticking your neck out can go a long way. I get what the other guy was saying about mystery and all that but she’s had time to think about you being gone so if what you guys have is real, you can’t keep playing games. Most women love it when a guy humbles himself for her, as long as he’s not needy and clingy. You don’t strike me as that type. If she’s kind hearted and forgiving, then she’ll likely come around, even if it’s not right away. Say what you want to say to her and then leave her alone.
Author ragegnst Posted October 23, 2018 Author Posted October 23, 2018 am just super nervous wished I could post the Vm on here, she was quite pissed off
Normm Posted October 23, 2018 Posted October 23, 2018 You posted it earlier. Maybe you're nervous because you are like the guy on the bomb squad who has to cut only one of 4 possible wires and if he cuts the wrong wire the bomb is going to explode and there's a possibility that no matter which wire he cuts it's still going to blow up. 1
Author ragegnst Posted October 23, 2018 Author Posted October 23, 2018 I would say that about sums it up perfectly!
Author ragegnst Posted October 23, 2018 Author Posted October 23, 2018 being so nervous and lacking confidence around someone that this was never ever close to an issue green it is
Author ragegnst Posted October 23, 2018 Author Posted October 23, 2018 Has been lovely, will report back after the ICU visit
Normm Posted October 23, 2018 Posted October 23, 2018 I have several unpaired socks if you lose a leg they're all yours.
Author ragegnst Posted October 23, 2018 Author Posted October 23, 2018 do not think I can do it, I know what you are saying bathtub, and maybe boozed fanned the flames of her anger, when just the week she wanted to get together and exchange stuff. Meaning we would have to meet face to face. That did not happen and one week later angry drunken phone call!
Normm Posted October 23, 2018 Posted October 23, 2018 Well if you're inclined to call her, exchanging your stuff could be a legit reason.
Author ragegnst Posted October 23, 2018 Author Posted October 23, 2018 if the stuff is all the important she would have tried again
Author ragegnst Posted October 23, 2018 Author Posted October 23, 2018 was not about stuff at all who knows
Normm Posted October 23, 2018 Posted October 23, 2018 You're not getting it. I don't think you should call her AT all. You are bent on calling her. I am simply giving you a good reason/excuse. Nothing more.
Author ragegnst Posted October 23, 2018 Author Posted October 23, 2018 can do it anyhow I am still pretty much a train wreck
Normm Posted October 23, 2018 Posted October 23, 2018 Those proverbs don't universally apply. In this case it could very well be "Something ventured, everything lost".
bathtub-row Posted October 24, 2018 Posted October 24, 2018 Those proverbs don't universally apply. In this case it could very well be "Something ventured, everything lost". It's already lost, isn't it? So, the only way to go is up. 1
Author ragegnst Posted October 24, 2018 Author Posted October 24, 2018 I can't do it anyhow, as I am a train wreck, but bathtub you are correct all is not lost, cause it is lost already
bathtub-row Posted October 24, 2018 Posted October 24, 2018 Interesting. I didn’t know guys were so cowardly when it came to this kind of thing. What’s that about exactly? I mean, what’s so major about just picking up the phone and telling a girl you want her back? I really don’t get it.
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