She just reached out

[Chassit]

Asking how and the cat were doing. Well it's been a couple of hours while I was sleeping. What do Ido? I am suddenly freaked out.

[basil67]

Looking at your history, apparently you got to keep the cat on condition that she could visit occasionally. Is this something you need to rethink?

[Chassit]

It may be. I really did not expect that she would follow through. I never really expected I'd ever hear from her again.

 

 

 

Under no circumstances can she take the cat though, so if I have to tolerate her presence for an hour for him to stay then so be it.

 

 

Part of me is hopeful though, which since I logically don't want her back I am feeling really confused at the moment.

[Chassit]

So yeah, I think I am just gonna block her.

[Marc878]

Don't waste your time on breadcrumbs.

 

Block her.

[Marc878]

It may be. I really did not expect that she would follow through. I never really expected I'd ever hear from her again.

 

 

 

Under no circumstances can she take the cat though, so if I have to tolerate her presence for an hour for him to stay then so be it.

 

Unless you have written orders for cat visitation just block and ignore her

 

Part of me is hopeful though, which since I logically don't want her back I am feeling really confused at the moment.

 

You really want to go back to square one over a breadcrumb text message?

 

Ignore, ignore, ignore. She moved out and in with her boyfriend leaving you in the dust.

 

You owe her nothing. Yourself everything.

[Chassit]

Agreed, she has been blocked without reply

[Marc878]

You see this over and over. She just wants validation that you still care. It's all about her. Nothing in it for you.

 

Words are meaningless. Their actions tell you everything.

 

Denial of who they are and hopium just keeps you bound.

 

You'll be fine. Just hold a very tight NC