fajberman2 Posted October 20, 2018 Posted October 20, 2018 So I know this is petty as hell but I was wondering because my ex dumped me last month and has been trying to message me and kept pooping up to me from now and again so I had hope she still wanted to get back together but she didnt admit it so I didnt bother... So today I posted a picture on my instagram story with a girl that I met and had dinner with and she saw that but she didnt unfollow me straight after that she unfollowed me like an hour later which is weird because she didnt seem to be bothered about my story before matter of fact she commented on one being friendly... But as soon as I posted that picture of that girl she unfollowed me even tho she could of unfollowed me ages ago since she broke up with me but over this 1 picture she unfollows hahaha... I know its petty and silly but what do you guys think about this?
planb1973 Posted October 21, 2018 Posted October 21, 2018 Sounds more like you were trying to make her jealous and it backfired on you.
Author fajberman2 Posted October 21, 2018 Author Posted October 21, 2018 Sounds more like you were trying to make her jealous and it backfired on you. How did it backfire at me? I'm not bothered at this point she had a guy on her snapchat 3 days after breakup and now I post a girl im having dinner with and she unfollows me i just find it funny to be honest
elaine567 Posted October 21, 2018 Posted October 21, 2018 Let it go. She dumped you, which is sad for you, but stay away. Who cares if she unfollowed you? You are out of her life now. Dumpers often keep an eye on the dumpee as they feel bad about dumping them. Once it is obvious the dumpee has moved on and is OK, it is often the natural time to cut the cord.
Author fajberman2 Posted October 21, 2018 Author Posted October 21, 2018 Let it go. She dumped you, which is sad for you, but stay away. Who cares if she unfollowed you? You are out of her life now. Dumpers often keep an eye on the dumpee as they feel bad about dumping them. Once it is obvious the dumpee has moved on and is OK, it is often the natural time to cut the cord. I know its not a big deal and to be honest she definately hasn't moved on she was trying to fix it by being friends like she did it with her previous ex... She didnt feel bad about dumping me because it ended in good terms so she was cool with that it makes no sense that she unfollowed me instantly after that picture and no i didnt even post that to make her jealous, she is still single and knowing what she does to guys she'll have a hard time finding someone that cared for her as much as I did...
Author fajberman2 Posted October 21, 2018 Author Posted October 21, 2018 (edited) Let it go. She dumped you, which is sad for you, but stay away. Who cares if she unfollowed you? You are out of her life now. Dumpers often keep an eye on the dumpee as they feel bad about dumping them. Once it is obvious the dumpee has moved on and is OK, it is often the natural time to cut the cord. I know I sound like it bothers me that she unfollowed me and yeah i know its pathetic but honestly i frankly dont care because I was over her the first 3 weeks after breakup its the fact that she came back again and started texting me... I unfollowed her ages ago to keep her away from me I was already working on myself and improving and I thought she was out but she wasn't.. The thing is she loves attention she does it all the time she blocked me on messanger last week because I said I want to move on and rejected her friendship and a day later she unblocked me again and messaged me... Then obviiously this happened with the girl on my insta story which made her unfollow me and i find it funny honestly because it shows how weak emotionally she is... Edited October 21, 2018 by fajberman2
Redhead14 Posted October 21, 2018 Posted October 21, 2018 So I know this is petty as hell but I was wondering because my ex dumped me last month and has been trying to message me and kept pooping up to me from now and again so I had hope she still wanted to get back together but she didnt admit it so I didnt bother... So today I posted a picture on my instagram story with a girl that I met and had dinner with and she saw that but she didnt unfollow me straight after that she unfollowed me like an hour later which is weird because she didnt seem to be bothered about my story before matter of fact she commented on one being friendly... But as soon as I posted that picture of that girl she unfollowed me even tho she could of unfollowed me ages ago since she broke up with me but over this 1 picture she unfollows hahaha... I know its petty and silly but what do you guys think about this? I'd say she's still hurting over the break up and that hurt her too. She's being smart by removing things that are toxic to her recovery process. Just because she broke up with you, doesn't mean she's not hurting or upset about it. None of your earlier posts caused her to unfollow you, this particular one did, so what? Maybe she's just at a down point in her grieving process right now. Grieving waxes and wanes for a long time sometimes even if a person is the dumpee. Why did she break up with you?
elaine567 Posted October 21, 2018 Posted October 21, 2018 I know I sound like it bothers me that she unfollowed me and yeah i know its pathetic but honestly i frankly dont care because I was over her the first 3 weeks after breakup its the fact that she came back again and started texting me... I unfollowed her ages ago to keep her away from me I was already working on myself and improving and I thought she was out but she wasn't.. The thing is she loves attention she does it all the time she blocked me on messanger last week because I said I want to move on and rejected her friendship and a day later she unblocked me again and messaged me... Then obviiously this happened with the girl on my insta story which made her unfollow me and i find it funny honestly because it shows how weak emotionally she is... OK then you block her. NO point in keeping this going, as she will probably cause havoc with any future girls you are dating. Exes, unless things are very friendly and amicable and the contact is unobtrusive, need filed away in the archives...
Author fajberman2 Posted October 21, 2018 Author Posted October 21, 2018 OK then you block her. NO point in keeping this going, as she will probably cause havoc with any future girls you are dating. Exes, unless things are very friendly and amicable and the contact is unobtrusive, need filed away in the archives... Yeah you're right but I don't really feel like blocking her is necessary since i'm single right now maybe things might work out in a few weeks/months.
Marc878 Posted October 21, 2018 Posted October 21, 2018 Pretty easy to see you're still not over her. Block her Some don't want you but don't want anyone else to have you either. Just wasting head space on this
Author fajberman2 Posted October 21, 2018 Author Posted October 21, 2018 Pretty easy to see you're still not over her. Block her Some don't want you but don't want anyone else to have you either. Just wasting head space on this Yeah i'll admit im definately not over her yet but at the same time i dont know if i want to block her..
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