Brady_to_Moss Posted October 20, 2018 Posted October 20, 2018 I was coming out of a 1 year relationship where I was cheated on for 6 months behind my back..she got pregnant by him and cut me off and never gave me a sorry or anything. I felt like I wasn't good enough for anyone. I was in a low place. My first real relationship. I went 3 years never wanting to date again..the thought of it and my trust issues from that girl made me sick. I wanted to just be alone maybe forever. But I got over it and went on Tinder...Was on there about 4 months..never met anyone...no one ever responded back. But this one girl did. We hit it off. Our first date was bowling..second was batting cages..3rd was mini golf. We had fun and still go on trips all over together. Back home to Minnesota (Where she is from) twice now...camping..Sporting events..apple picking ect. 8 months later here we are. Both madly in love with one another. Understanding each other and amazing communication. She's a virgin (28 and I am 30) and we have yet to have sex but next week will be our first time. I respect her space and never push her to have sex as it's a big deal for her as I feel and based on talking with her..she was waiting for the "one" to give that to. We fool around and do everyone under the sun outside of that and our passion and chemistry in the bedroom is amazing. Tonight we were sitting in my Jeep before going up to her place and she said..you know you better never let me go..I am a tough act to follow up. I playfully laughed and said yeah..it would be very hard to let you go. She smiled and pulled me in for a kiss. We plan trips a year and 6 months out. I can see it and feel it from her she sees me as a very long term thing. And for me? Yeah maybe 7 months is early to feel this...but she's the one. It's almost like the show The Office where Jim buys a ring the first week him and Pam date because he knew. Things can happen in life and change but she is so genuine and loving and is willing to go above and beyond to make me happy. I never question her loyalty or intentions as I have a good idea of her end game here...and she feels and knows my end game here. Sorry for the long rant but for those thinking there is no hope or gone on 100 bad dates....there is hope. If I can find someone after what I have been through..you can as well! 4
Rotn'roses Posted October 20, 2018 Posted October 20, 2018 Take care of her. Dont let her down. All women should be sheltered from multiple partners. If a man wants a virgin, he should pop the question. Its the most sacred gift a woman can offer a man. I pray you are her life partner and at least one woman out there gets the respect she deserves. Its all downhill after the first disappointment. I hope you two are happy together the rest of your days. 1
OpenBook Posted October 20, 2018 Posted October 20, 2018 What a sweet story! Made me smile and go "Awwwww…" Thank you for sharing that Brady. Wishing you many happy years together! 2
Sunlight72 Posted October 21, 2018 Posted October 21, 2018 Good for you two! So glad to hear your positive turn in life Brady_to_Moss! Thanks for sharing
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