Heart broken, hopes and dreams shattered after 2 year relationship.

[Rocko]

Thanks for the kind words Eddpad. Know I'm in the same boat as you all and am still to this day, fighting the fight.

 

Isolate yourself from her as much as possible. Your going to be living your own life for now. She's got to do her own thing, and so do you. These kind of breakups really suck in my opinion, just because "they ended." No real problems other than her going off the deep-end. So for now, take time for yourself. When you feel ready, think about her and think HARD. Do you love her? or do you love the love? Take those conclusions and take things from there.

 

Frankly guys, we come out here as winners, regardless of what happens. Don't let these moments get you down. Just keep on truckin'.

[Super89Rex]

Wow Rocko, and Eddpad.. you guys brought a tear my my eye reading your posts.. Thank you, what was said has made me feel much, much better. Eddpad I hope things get better with you, I know what you're going through; and yeah our situations are are the same; been traded down for lowlives.

 

Rocko, thanks for the kind words. We do come out as winners and that is a great way of looking at it.. We just need to think, the next girls that come along will be amazing compared to these ones. And as many of you have said, she/they will learn with time as they mature the error of their ways. But we need to move on with our lives.

 

Thank You:)

[Rocko]

You know, everyone knocks down "young love", but honestly, young love is probably the purest form of love out there, there is love for who that person is. The older we grow, the more selfish we get and ask what is this person going to do for me in th relationship. (Damn, I went a bit off-topic there).

 

I totally agree with you eddpad, after this heartbreak the heart will never be same again. I highly doubt I'll be letting the walls down so easily after this... and I have the oddest feeling that this is going to affect my psyche unless I fight it .

[Rocko]

i agree with rocko....move on. i wouldnt read into it....but i think she made an excuse to call you b/c you were backing off. i did that to my ex and he called me to make sure i was feeding the cat. come on now...what an excuse!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! but you dont want to read into it. i am trying to move on and when he realizes what he is missing....i might not be there. you do the same thing! keep doing what you are doing...dont play the fool!!!!!!!!! pick itup only when she is not there! then she will know that you are serious bout moving on.

 

FYI : My ex called me 2 weeks ago because I joined a club on facebook.