Linda_411 Posted September 10, 2005 Posted September 10, 2005 I always find, that my bf thinks most about himself of buying things. Like when we first dated he'd spoil me, and surprise me with flowers, but now it seems like I do all the surprising. Have any ideas on how to pursway him to surprise me, and does that normally wear off when dating someone for a while(meaning surprises). Because it seems like he only spends money on himself and not on me. Another thing, he barely brings me out anywhere, maybe once in the blue moon. And it always seems like I pay my own way. Is that right/fair? Let me know.
whichwayisup Posted September 10, 2005 Posted September 10, 2005 If this is an issue and it's upsetting you, talk to him about it all. That's not cool if he's not doing nice things for you and it's becoming one-sided now. Also, for now, stop doing nice things for him! I don't think you should expect him to pay your way every time you both go out. Can be dutch, sometimes he can pay, sometimes you can pay...
Merin Posted September 10, 2005 Posted September 10, 2005 Linda, I really think you're trippin to much on your relationship... I'm not trying to be mean but you're worrying yourself to death over every little thing your BF does or doesn't do... says or doesn't say. If he treats you well, you like him and he's a good guy then relax.
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