Am I A Gold Digger?

[sabaton]

This is a troll thread you idiots

 

 

Yeah, I have the feeling this is a nice guy pretending to be a woman.

[GoldenBeauty]

Yeah, I have the feeling this is a nice guy pretending to be a woman.

 

Please don't do that. I am a real person and this is not fake. Reading your replies is helping me to find the courage to leave. I want to leave. But I know I won't. But I don't know maybe I will find the courage.

[GoldenBeauty]

Please don't derail my thread. You don't know what it's like to go through life getting complimented 10 times a day. And then feeling like **** because you don't feel that validation from your boyfriend. But not having the strength to leave him because you don't think anyone else would have pursued you for 4 years. and he's your first love and the one who took your virginity

[d0nnivain]

Reading your replies is helping me to find the courage to leave. I want to leave. But I know I won't. But I don't know maybe I will find the courage.

 

You won't find courage on a message board. You will find it through the hard work you need to do in therapy. You have to find out why if you get compliments 10x per day you chose to believe the jerk who isn't giving you validation but more importantly until you validate yourself, you will always be unhappy.

 

The choice is yours. Act in your own best interests.

[sabaton]

Could be that. We all know women go for jerks over nice guys and good guys but this is way over the top.

 

 

Some women go for men who are jerks, not the majority, yes.

[SouthernIslander]

It doesn’t sound crazy. It is crazy. I think you need professional therapy.

 

Your view on love and attraction is way to focused on looks and beauty. Attraction is much more complex than that, and love even more so.

 

Chasing someone for 4 years is not healthy. It’s not love: It’s obsession. Just think. He doesn’t even spend the night with you? Why is that?

 

Seriously: therapy. We are just a bunch of random people - and can’t really help you. You’ve already acknowledged the issue: now it’s time to fix it.

 

Agree with this 100000%