Magicmontazzle Posted October 16, 2018 Posted October 16, 2018 Run babes run. Love bomber. Red flags glaring! 1
40somethingGuy Posted October 16, 2018 Posted October 16, 2018 I was contacted by a man from an online dating site. He's good looking. He asked for my number, I gave it him and he called etc. He would call me early every morning, seems like a nice guy. He's a single father and he'd send me photos of his kids. All very wholesome so far. 3-4 days like this, he hasn't asked to meet in person, but he's already calling me honey (I understand maybe that's just how some people talk). Then on the phone he started asking me how many men I'm talking to, how long I've been on the site, and how many sites I'm on. I answered (not many/not long). Then he told me there is no need to talk to many people and that I should delete my account on the OLD site. I'm thinking, but we haven't met! What is this red flag signaling? Is he getting over a break up? He's got good looks and good career, good life, he should have no problem finding a woman. Something doesn't feel right. But I'm not sure what. Honestly, until you have 'the talk' and commit to each other exclusively, none of that is his business. Yeah, he sounds controlling, insecure, and outright strange.
alphamale Posted October 16, 2018 Posted October 16, 2018 this guy is a psychopath looking for his next victim, stay away 1
Author Gretchen12 Posted October 17, 2018 Author Posted October 17, 2018 Thanks everybody! All good advice and so caring :-) The guy is too weird. He became irate when I was slow to text back so I blocked him. Good riddance. 1
Ruby Slippers Posted October 17, 2018 Posted October 17, 2018 In my experience, any guy who asks you to stop messaging other men or get off the site before you've even met soon reveals himself to be mentally unhinged. From now on, the mere request will drive me away.
LockyCaps Posted October 18, 2018 Posted October 18, 2018 This is natural to ask your gf & bf to stop messaging someone else. But the problem is in faith to each other. In my opinion, it's not a problem at all to let my girlfriend chat to other men at https://besthookupssites.com, because i have no enough time to pay her. Probably, i am idiot, but as i said it's all about faith to each other.
Simple Logic Posted October 18, 2018 Posted October 18, 2018 I was contacted by a man from an online dating site. He's good looking. He asked for my number, I gave it him and he called etc. He would call me early every morning, seems like a nice guy. He's a single father and he'd send me photos of his kids. All very wholesome so far. 3-4 days like this, he hasn't asked to meet in person, but he's already calling me honey (I understand maybe that's just how some people talk). Then on the phone he started asking me how many men I'm talking to, how long I've been on the site, and how many sites I'm on. I answered (not many/not long). Then he told me there is no need to talk to many people and that I should delete my account on the OLD site. I'm thinking, but we haven't met! What is this red flag signaling? Is he getting over a break up? He's got good looks and good career, good life, he should have no problem finding a woman. Something doesn't feel right. But I'm not sure what. The photo he displayed was a guy with good looks and he claims he has a good career / life. You never met him and you don’t know if anything he has represented is true. Proceed cautiously.
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