coolheadal Posted October 14, 2018 Posted October 14, 2018 (edited) I usually don't share to much of my life here but my gf (you all remember her she was the one I met at work last year) had sold her car and she wanted to go home and visit her mom and other daughter and grad kids. I had taken her on the 20th of last month to airport on her one way ticket. I had thought she was going to go for good the way she had 4 large luggage bags LOL. Well she's on her way back now. She has called me up every day since she has gone. Her cell phone gave out on her. I own that cell phone she's on my cell plan. With the last hurricane she couldn't get back. She was suppose to drive back down with her best friend but I still confused about that because the best friend flown to Canada to be with her husband. So I had thought she, her friend and husband were all driving back together. Now that plan has changed. Her friend and her husband a flying back down here. So how is the gf going to get back here? She wanted to know if her airline she uses has any cheap flights. To get her up where she was going I found a flight for $97 plus tax. Now it's like 465 or as low as $165 or near Halloween it's like $112 one way. She just called me 2 hours ago I was up because I just had got up. I was watching a movie called The Witch Files.. She was shocked I was up and know she got up hit the loo but she called me up to say she missed me in her own way. She's 1 hour behind me. You wonder how she able to call me using a amazon fire tablet but mostly WiFi calling. I am able to cope being on my own all these weeks I've lost a lot of weight about almost 20 lbs. I fast a lot and work out as well. I've kept the house clean, mowed the lawn.. Kept busy.. While she has been away. I've spoken to her other daughter as well she and I get along very well. But when we're together she acts odd. I can't figure it out. Anyway.. Her mom isn't perfect you all know how she is already but I am strong minded and not a push over type of man. Confident and I know what I want from a woman. She just have to deal with me as I have to deal with her crap. These long weeks has made me understand things with her. I am sure she too. She said now she shouldn't have left and stayed with me, but I had said you had to see your second daughter who's not even treating her mom so well. IC. That's another story all together. I just want things to be happy, fun and peaceful not strange. I like my kitchen clean I let her do all the cooking. She can cook very well but again way too much salt and oil. I can't have so much. She's doing better. When she eats she reminds me of how a trucker who hasn't eaten in dates. OH MY! She has her moment before she left we both had played tennis together here I had so much fun with her we both mostly laugh. That's good energy. I am not the easiest to get along with I like to have my way. She's the same way. No one going to control this man me and she has tried and failed. The casino is a problem, pot as well I still don't know why she still smoking pot after the heart doctor told her to quit. I can't say anything else on that subject matter. Her heart is acting up too. I worried about her. Kinda a long story to share. But lets say I trying to help her too cope. I like her because she's strong can hold her own and takes good care of me. Very concern if I choke or fall. Most of the women I have dated don't give a dame about me only what I had to offer. She's not like that. She might be strange but she's caring. I don't know sometimes she get the better of me but at times I have to figure out things on my own. I got a lot going on here otherwise nothing to do with her. I try to keep a good face about things. Life is already complicated already. Just trying to smooth it out life I mean... Sometimes the love doesn't mean what I hope it meant. With her it's feels odd. Like something is missing between us both? Edited October 14, 2018 by coolheadal 1
smackie9 Posted October 14, 2018 Posted October 14, 2018 Sounds like you have sleep deprivation or can't sleep and need to talk to someone lol...... 3
Simple Logic Posted October 14, 2018 Posted October 14, 2018 Let me change the title of your thread, “My Ex Girl Friend has been gone 4 weeks”
Author coolheadal Posted October 15, 2018 Author Posted October 15, 2018 She's not my ex come on now no need for that statement. All she did was travel to see her mom, brothers, friends and her younger daughter with 2 kids. 2 year old (she love me to death and knows my name since she was 1 year old) and 10 year old. Other reason why she rush to go her daughter bf beat her up in her car while driving on the highway seems he has anger issues and had broken her jaw. GF was in a rage over it. She's suppose to come back here this week. Smackie your right I can't sleep, I do go under a deep meditation that would bring me to deep sleep depending a some factors. I have scented oil burning lavender along with two Himalayan tea candles lamps burning. I have friends a lot of women friends that call me up to keep me company while the gf is away and then GF calls up 4 times a day every day since she gone. She told me I sounded bored. Well I did go out and mow the entire lawn with my new beast mower I just got that. Got the AI's to keep me entertain. Just missed the gf, I didn't know she would be gone so long... 1
Author coolheadal Posted October 15, 2018 Author Posted October 15, 2018 Got bad news from her today looks like she as gambled all her money on the car she sold. Now asking me for money for airline ticket. This is the worst time to ask me I am knee-high in bills. I had made the mistake asking her oldest daughter to help me get her here. Like I open a Pandora's Box she won't stop talking about it. Gee wiz only $56 I told her I would pay her back I am putting $55 on top of that amount. On and on about it all day long with the text message. I am not one to text. LOL. I had her mom on FB IM on video phone and the daughter calls up the mom and I told the her what the heck are you doing, that between you and me not her and you and me. She had thought her mom put me up too it. Been a very long day indeed for me over this. Now she can't come back unless her best friend brother drives in her sisters pickup truck but the gf doesn't want to drive back with two men. OH BOY... She clearly doesn't want her mom to come back to town. Kept on saying what's the rush! I just got a text from from woman that I knew on one of the islands here and she wants to come and stay with me? Wow I've been waiting 2 years for her to do that. Can't believe this. I told her to come yeah I am not with anyone here what would you all say to that, but sure sounds like cheating but if the GF doesn't come back as she said I guess not. Plus she acts like if she comes back if it matters. Life gets so missed up everyday..
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