loststarsx Posted October 13, 2018 Posted October 13, 2018 Hi everyone. I am doing NC and this ended very recently. However, at what point do I break it to get my things back? I feel conflicted. I understand the true purpose of NC, I want my things, but will this completely ruin any chance on reconciliation? (I know there are so many factors in this and the logistics.) I know you have to follow your heart, but the situation is delicate. Thank you!
basil67 Posted October 13, 2018 Posted October 13, 2018 NC isn’t a method of reconciliation - it’s a method to get over the person and move on. If you want reconciliation, you both need to want it and be working together on fixing the problems. If you want your things back, contact him to make a plan on the best way to do it. 1
d0nnivain Posted October 14, 2018 Posted October 14, 2018 NC starts after you resolve all business between you -- getting stuff back, getting off the lease, paying last shared bills etc. 1
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