donotmicrowave Posted October 13, 2018 Posted October 13, 2018 Hey guys, I decided to reach out to you as I would really like some insight from people who are more experienced. I haven't been on dates myself. This is so very new to me, so if the answer is obvious for you, I apologize! I was recently in Germany for work. I'd had Tinder for a while, never met up with anyone as no one truly sparked my interest, but one night, out of boredom, I decided to see what's on Tinder in Germany. I found myself talking to a lot of really great guys, later that night I swiped right on this one guy who had "Super liked" me. We started talking, and got along really well. The vibe was really nice. For the record, I'm 20, he's 19. So as I was leaving Germany soon, he asked to meet up. And I agreed. We were both busy, but he decided to drive to the airport before my flight and meet me there. Which is what we did. It was quite a messy day, I was definitely not looking my best haha.. I was tired and had had a frustrating morning. But I was happy to see him. We sat down at a cafe, he got the drink that I wanted as I said it sounded good. He'd asked a stranger if he could watch my bags as we were getting our drinks, which I found sweet. Then we sat down and just talked. It was really nice. I felt very at ease with him, we laughed a lot, didn't run out of topics to talk about. He told me about his family, his crazy sister, and so on. A bit over two hours later it was time to go, so he walked me to by terminal and said that the next time I'll be around (I'm in Germany quite often), he'll take me to dinner. We hugged and said goodbye. That was almost a week ago now. I'm back home. And what worries me is that I really don't hear from him that much anymore. He takes so long to respond, sometimes he's on the app but won't open my messages. But the thing is.. When he does respond, he kinda makes conversation. You know? It's just odd as he is active on social media, before we met, we texted more. The last message I sent to him was 16h ago, to give you an example. I just really don't know! I'll be around next month as well, he said it sounds good, gave me the dates when he's gone. And said he'll definitely be around at the time I'll be there. Is this normal or..? I am confusion
BaileyB Posted October 13, 2018 Posted October 13, 2018 That was almost a week ago now. I'm back home. And what worries me is that I really don't hear from him that much anymore. He takes so long to respond, sometimes he's on the app but won't open my messages. I just really don't know! I'll be around next month as well, he said it sounds good, gave me the dates when he's gone. And said he'll definitely be around at the time I'll be there. What exactly did you expect, you met him at the airport for a drink before you left the country... He has gone back to his life, you have gone back to yours... He told you to contact him when you are next in town - so do that. I wouldn't expect anything more from him given the situation...
Author donotmicrowave Posted October 13, 2018 Author Posted October 13, 2018 What exactly did you expect, you met him at the airport for a drink before you left the country... He has gone back to his life, you have gone back to yours... He told you to contact him when you are next in town - so do that. I wouldn't expect anything more from him given the situation... I'm 20 and he's 19. Live in different countries. I believe it'd be quite normal to keep steady contact as we plan on meeting again. At this age, texting and messaging is quite a big part of our lives anyway. What I expected - not falling out of touch before meeting.
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