clueless_4ever Posted October 12, 2018 Posted October 12, 2018 I have been dating a guy for two months. Before we even went on our first date, we were texting while I was on a trip at Disneyland. He kept saying he has tickets he needs to use and how we should go together. I said that would be fun. Recently, he's been talking about how he wants to use the tickets by the end of the year. But he never mentions going with me, friends, or anyone. Today, he texts me how he has free time during specific dates and "it might be a good time to go to disneyland". So I replied "Lucky... If you need a plus one, I'm here." Then he replies with something completely off topic. To give more context, immediately before his text we were talking about something completely different. He just mentions it out of the blue. What does this mean? Does he not want to go with me? Why even mention it at all to me?
Lotsgoingon Posted October 13, 2018 Posted October 13, 2018 It means you're talking to someone who is unreliable, inconsistent and/or disinterested in you. It means if you decide to continue having ANY hope of something emerging with this guy--you're going to be disappointed. It means he has given you a TON of good information about himself--and this information all points one way--not dating material. Not mature. Not interested. Not clear, not focused. Not safe to invest any hopes in. It means let him go ... don't even respond any more. Relations are challenging when both people are focused, mature and reliable ... relationships are impossible if someone behaves as he behaves. 1
Logo Posted October 13, 2018 Posted October 13, 2018 He sounds impulsive and immature, the kind of person who changes his mind at the flick of a light switch. He's keeping his options open. I wouldn't bother with someone like that. I was with someone like that in the past and it's not conducive to a healthy relationship. Move on.
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