virgin male Posted September 9, 2005 Posted September 9, 2005 Taking it the other way around. Do girls get turned off by males who are virgins?
Gold Pile Posted September 10, 2005 Posted September 10, 2005 Some girls want a man who knows his way around. Generally these women aren't cofortable saying what they like in bed. Others are turned on at being your first. Others may not be turned on, but (if you're past a certain age) they might be more likely to "do you a favor"
933KJL Posted September 10, 2005 Posted September 10, 2005 To those who are turned on by being "my first", I can pretend VERY well!
dgiirl Posted September 10, 2005 Posted September 10, 2005 To those who are turned on by being "my first", I can pretend VERY well! lol is that a good thing?! To the original poster, someone has to be your first, so what difference does it matter? Just be patient, find the right person who loves you and dont worry about it. You want your first to be with a caring person, and if the girl is turned off by a virgin, then she's not really a caring person is she?
whichwayisup Posted September 11, 2005 Posted September 11, 2005 Let's put it this way, if the sexual attraction is there and he's willing to listen and learn, why not!
betterwife Posted September 11, 2005 Posted September 11, 2005 most women are turn on by male virgins. but the thing is that are rarely virgin men in this world. i will say wait until you get married to loose your virginity because there's many of diseases out here that you can get while even having a condom on. Be careful God didn't create STD's for nothing
Link-80 Posted September 11, 2005 Posted September 11, 2005 Not all of us believe in God you know. While I don't personally support it, promiscous sex is perfectly fine.
jaredb Posted September 12, 2005 Posted September 12, 2005 being promiscious is never right, whether youre religious or not. all it does is heighten ur chance of getting infected with something. i am firm believer that if u have sex with someone, have some type of deeper feelings about them.
Naive Posted September 12, 2005 Posted September 12, 2005 Taking it the other way around. Do girls get turned off by males who are virgins? It really does not matter to me.
Cecelius Posted September 12, 2005 Posted September 12, 2005 It's not a question of whether they are turned on or not in the short term, if you are interested in an LTR. Most younger girls WILL be turned off. They may think its cute, and they may like the idea of being your first, but long term they will tend to think of you as less alpha, depending on how old you are and where your experience level "should" be. All of this is moot if you can absolutely wow them. Many older women will be much less forgiven since they are less dependent on the man to guide the way. Depending on how old you are and they are, you may end up being a discussion point between them and their g/fs. I say don't raise it, don't lie, and do your best work. If you the relationship doesn't work out, at least you're no longer worried about your status.
JS17 Posted September 12, 2005 Posted September 12, 2005 I say don't raise it, don't lie, and do your best work. If you the relationship doesn't work out, at least you're no longer worried about your status. I second this. Your age is a factor as well. You'll probably find the same issues that men have with women who are virgins. Virgins notoriously become attached to their first. A woman who is older and more experienced may not want that and they may not want to be a teacher. They may not want to be such an important relationship in your life. They may also be insecure about you wanting to go out and explore other women, probably more so than in the case of men dating women who are virgins. Then there are also women who wouldn't care. Personally, I wouldn't mind being a teacher however I'm not sure I would be secure enough that a male virgin wouldn't want to go explore other women. I think it really depends on the person and the situation...each relationship is different.
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