rcrljmg07 Posted October 12, 2018 Posted October 12, 2018 Earlier today she was cutting something and she cut herself pretty bad and then later told me she felt like a badass because she bled, I was like wth in my head. It almost sounded at first like she did it on purpose, I asked and she said of course not, then she was making like gang references joking around. she has said other strange things in the past, or made weird jokes. Is this a red flag, something to be alarmed by or am I just going overboard, we are very close and I love her very much, but the whole thing disturbed me
Kelliousme Posted October 12, 2018 Posted October 12, 2018 What kind of red flag are talking about? You're afraid that she cuts herself on purpose? Or you're afraid she used to do/or will do crazy stuffs and that's a "red flag" to the relationship? Assuming you're talking about the latter, you've been with her for one year already so you should know her quite a bit no? If she's joking.. could she have been just really trying to joke and show that she's okay? At least she's not a baby crying over spilled blood. I've seen girls cry over a small cut and it just makes me to want to smash them LOL. Unless you tell me what she said word for word or go into details of what actually happened, this whole situation seems trivial.
BaileyB Posted October 12, 2018 Posted October 12, 2018 Has your girlfriend previously engaged in my cutting behavior?
Art_Critic Posted October 12, 2018 Posted October 12, 2018 It sounds to me that you just don't get her humor, she thought it was funny but you didn't... I happen to believe that humor makes the world go around and feel that my humor is who I am so I have always looked for a woman that got my humor.. of course years later my wife no longer laughs at my jokes anymore IMO, I think she was just cutting up with you
Author rcrljmg07 Posted October 12, 2018 Author Posted October 12, 2018 At first the way she said it I thought maybe she did do it on purpose, cause she’s like I felt like a bad ass, that part she wasn’t joking about. But no I don’t feel she’d cut herself purposely. Word for word she said I cut myself and I was like you ok? She said, yeah I’m fine. I kind of feel like a badass, I said why and she said I just do. I then said on purpose, she said of course not. Then I asked again and she was like because it was with my personal knife and I bled, then she started making gangster jokes
smackie9 Posted October 12, 2018 Posted October 12, 2018 It's her sense of humor.....you find it disturbing so there's some incompatibility going on here.
coolheadal Posted October 12, 2018 Posted October 12, 2018 At first the way she said it I thought maybe she did do it on purpose, cause she’s like I felt like a bad ass, that part she wasn’t joking about. But no I don’t feel she’d cut herself purposely. Word for word she said I cut myself and I was like you ok? She said, yeah I’m fine. I kind of feel like a badass, I said why and she said I just do. I then said on purpose, she said of course not. Then I asked again and she was like because it was with my personal knife and I bled, then she started making gangster jokes Sounds like urban slang jave talk to me. Yes she is doing what you think. That's the way she is and you have to either live with her as she is just walk out of this. She's talking blank out of her blank mouth. That's way the street people rap wit each other. She cut she bleeds and she jokes i off. You didn't get the joke because your not hip with her blank comments.
MidwestUSA Posted October 12, 2018 Posted October 12, 2018 Did she bleed red or blue? But, I agree. It's her sense of humor. Maybe she's proud of the fact she didn't freak out. I have a sister who faints at the sight of one drop of blood. Believe me, you don't want to deal with THAT.
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