kscholze Posted September 9, 2005 Posted September 9, 2005 I have made a few posts here, but here is one more. My ex and I broke up about 3 months ago. she got back together with her ex while still saying she loved me. so I pushed a little for her to either say she didn;t love me, or be with me. She told me it was over. Can her ex be her rebound? Will that last? I think she just missed having someone.
upsetnhurt Posted September 10, 2005 Posted September 10, 2005 Wait a second.......it is possible that YOU were the rebound and she simply used you to try to get over her ex which apparently didn't work. Either way realize that she is a mixed up woman that is going to need years to resolve her issues....time which you should not have to spend worrying about whether she cares for you or not. There are plenty of women who would love to get along with you if you give them the chance I am sure. Good luck.
Author kscholze Posted September 10, 2005 Author Posted September 10, 2005 they were broken up for a year
jhurtinct Posted September 10, 2005 Posted September 10, 2005 kscholze- did you two break it off then she ended up back w/her ex or did she break it off to be w/herex? was she still in contact w/him when you were together or did that happen after the break up and if so who contacted who?
Author kscholze Posted September 10, 2005 Author Posted September 10, 2005 she broke it off and when I found out I asked her if you left me for him and she said no (of course) that he was just there. She also said that she thought about him sometimes while we were together I am sure they were in contact (txt msg prob) just cant imagine a rebound after a year
jhurtinct Posted September 10, 2005 Posted September 10, 2005 I think I said it before in one of your other posts I don't think you were a rebound after they were apart for a yr. I think maybe you two had some kind of probs that caused a break and someone ahe felt comfort with was just there. Did she date anyone in the yr they were apart before she met you? If so how and why did that/those relationships end? Maybe she just has unresolved issues with herself she needs to deal with:( Try and just stay strong and focus all this energy on yourself you need to be #1:)
alphamale Posted September 10, 2005 Posted September 10, 2005 I am sure they were in contact (txt msg prob) just cant imagine a rebound after a year if he dumped her a year ago and then just took her back then you were the rebound, KSCHOZLE. Simple as that...
Author kscholze Posted September 10, 2005 Author Posted September 10, 2005 she broke up with him a year ago. She dated a few guys in between that i know of one for sure.
Author kscholze Posted September 10, 2005 Author Posted September 10, 2005 she was the one that broke it off with him
samski3409 Posted September 10, 2005 Posted September 10, 2005 yo kscholze, We both just have to realize that these girls we're dealing with are really confused and quite a bit selfish.i mean really do we want to be with someone that has so many doubts about us? look at us putting so much energy and emotion into something that obviously doesn't mean as much to them.we're on this site trying to figure what going on with them,all the while they're out with someone else.i think it's time we just really get feed up with it and move the hell on! I'm saying this as much for myself as i am for you.The time has indeed come to REALLY put them in the past and keep them there!!
Author kscholze Posted September 10, 2005 Author Posted September 10, 2005 samski - I was just thinking the same thing a few minutes ago. I am here posting on a nice saturday afternoon trying to figure this bulls*** out when i should be out enjoying my day. I just need to get laid, that will help me get over it.
samski3409 Posted September 10, 2005 Posted September 10, 2005 man,it's not like i wasn't having a great freaking life and having all kinds of fun before i ever met her.my life was freaking cool i got plenty of women and have great friends.but i think i lost sight of all that.since I've been broken up with this girl I've had more then a few opportunity's come my way and i wasn't receptive to them because I've been all screwed up over this girl. i promise you the time will come when we'll look back at this time we've spent toiling around about these girls and realize what a waste it has been. and the soon we get on with or lives the sooner that day will be!
Author kscholze Posted September 10, 2005 Author Posted September 10, 2005 same here, and amen. I just caught a break in the NC rule. I just switched cell providers and I lost my number. She doesn't use email (cant even turn on a computer) she doesnt have my number. She only knows where I live and I don't think she will be by anytime soon. And I don't have to wake up and look at my phone to see if she called because she cant!!!!
samski3409 Posted September 10, 2005 Posted September 10, 2005 then consider that sh*t a blessing! i'm here to tell that today is a new day for me and i'm done with this girl for good!she's no longer going to have that power over me!!!!!!!!!
Author kscholze Posted September 10, 2005 Author Posted September 10, 2005 good choice. I am going to have the best day\night ever. Holding nothing back
brittanyjean259 Posted October 4, 2005 Posted October 4, 2005 how will sleeping with some one else help you get over some one? should i have sex with aguy to get over my ex? would that help?... the best relationship is where they have never gone out with some, and you have never gone out with some1( or both have never had a serious relationship) that way no worrying about rebound....just sucks when break ups occur..... bc there will always be that one person who stole your heart first... all is fair in love and war..
Art_Critic Posted October 4, 2005 Posted October 4, 2005 should i have sex with aguy to get over my ex? would that help?... they alway's say that the best way to get over someone is to get under someone else
Firehawk Posted October 4, 2005 Posted October 4, 2005 how will sleeping with some one else help you get over some one? Just be sober when you do it...
chocolate_boy Posted October 5, 2005 Posted October 5, 2005 It's a bad idea sleeping with someone else unless you're over your ex, in my experience it only makes you feel worse... Might just be me though, give yourself time.
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