Forever Searching Posted September 9, 2005 Posted September 9, 2005 This might be an off the wall question, but I'm wondering if there is any way to tell between having bad instincts and just being paranoid?? I think I may be slightly more paranoid than the norm but I have a bad feeling about my Long Distance Relationship.
cplfun13 Posted September 9, 2005 Posted September 9, 2005 Well somehting had to cause the instinct. Did something happen and now you continue to think about it and it feels like being paranoid? People get feelings for a reason, they dont just pop up for nothing. You may have to look into the feeling a little further but never discard a feeling. If it ends up you were wrong then great, but rationalize it first.
Author Forever Searching Posted September 11, 2005 Author Posted September 11, 2005 Thanks for replying.. I was busy all weekend so didn't get to respond back. Well, I have a feeling that my boyfriend isn't as serious about our relationship as me and I think he's taking advantage of me. For instance, he still has his dating profiles up and mine is down. It's actually a very complex situation and complicated because he is overseas. I just think he is talking not just to me but to other girls as well. I don't know what to do or think because we haven't known each other that long so he had to leave before we got really serious but I do care for him and don't want to date anyone else but I also don't want to sit here and wait for someone to come back that doesn't value me either.
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